2001
Wednesday, May 23
Dear VTwin Mama,
I will get my learner's permit next week and in October I will attend the
Basic Rider Safety Course. I am really excited about it! Are there any
clubs for women riders in Maryland? Thanks for your help!!
Eager to Ride
Dear Eager,
I am so excited for you too! You've got a wonderful journey ahead
of you, one that I hope gives you years of enjoyment.
In answer to your question, one suggestion I would
strongly advocate is to get in contact with the Women
on Wheels organization. I hopped onto their site just the other day,
and lo and behold, they had a directory, by state, of women riders in your
area who are willingly to talk to you about what's going on. Doesn't that
sound like a good place to start?!?!?!
Why, there are 19 contacts names and email addresses for
Maryland alone! Yipee. If anyone from Maryland is reading this and would
like to share information, send a note to Ask
VTwin Mama, and I'll be sure to post it pronto. If anyone has another
directory suggestion, pass that on as well. That's what the VTwin Mama
forum is all about!
Mama
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Wednesday, May 30
Dear VTwin Mama,
It's hard to keep up with all the different new sites for women riders
these days. What do you suggest?
Spinning on the Web
Dear Spinning,
Isn't it a big old mess?!?!?! Sure, maybe it feels like too much to
keep track of, but I'm finding that there are really only a handful of
sites that I really want to keep up with, that have the kind of
information I'm looking for.
One tool you can use is to sign
up for the VTwin Mama newsletter, a weekly short insight into some
news and a cool link and stuff like that. How's that for raising my own
flag and saluting it? Another place I like for information and links is Motorcycle
Madness. Check it out!
Readers of this column are always welcome to submit a
top-notch site that they think will benefit others. Just send an email.
Mama
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Wednesday, June 20
New Note to Elda from VTwin Mama,
I just found another site that you can check out local women riders
in your area for support and riding buddies. Try Ridin' The Wind at:
http://www.ridinthewind.com/forums/Introductions/index.html
(defunct as of 7/25/01, go to Sisters
and Brothers of The Wall). Post your own profile and check for others.
Wowee!
Mama
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Monday, June 25
Dear VTwin Mama,
I've been riding off and on for the past 30+ years. Always on my own
cycle, mostly on solo adventures. Most of my work assignments are overseas
so when I'm home, I air out on my Shadow. Here's the question : I have
never gone to a rally or motorcycle event. There are a bunch of them in
Texas and surrounding area. I'm not sure what "the rules" are or
what's expected. But I'd like to ease into that side of motorcycle life.
Can you help? Linda and her Shadow
Dear Linda,
There are four important elements to any rally: fun, fun,
fun, and fun!
Ok, well really, I was thinking about getting there
(better to ride the bike than trailering it to the event if at all possible),
cruising down some sort of main strip (at really slow speeds so be ready
for a death grip on the clutch), looking at other cool bikes and
guys (self
explanatory), and having others look at you and your bike (because you're a
highly valued VTwin Mama of course)!
Pretend you are going on vacation on your bike and there
just happens to be a gazillion other bikers in the same neighborhood at
the same time! There are usually rider-specific events; maybe a bike
contest or bike racing, or cool sites to visit in the area, and maybe even
a special women's rally, but really it's just a chance to be with other
people who enjoy riding like you do. The event might even have its own
website, like Daytona and Sturgis do,
so do a search engine check on the Internet.
About the only thing I try to do special is keep the
bike totally clean at all times so it looks its best. If it's an overnight
or longer thing, camping usually is pretty easy and affordable, but motel
rooms get scarce quickly, so plan ahead. You might want to try visiting
the Women on Wheels
website and
look up women in your area who would be glad to have you join them at the
next event.
Three notes of special interest (at least I think for
any woman attending a rally): Alcohol is never your friend. Watch your ass
like you would in any strange place (let's face it, not all bikers are
friendly, cool or interested in your well being, just like in the real
world). And make sure friends know where and when you'll be, etc.
Other than that, revel in your VTwin Mama-ness and have
fun! Buy cool T-shirts, cruise, and be happy!
Mama
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Tuesday, June 26
Howdy
VTwin Mama,
Was
at your site, very nice, and I don't pay attention to the Men
with the Attitude. This is my 46th year on the road, and have had
Harley's, Indian's, Yamahas, and Hondas,
have another Harley now, but I rode alone for many years, and have now
started a Woman On Wheels
Chapter, here in Allegan Michigan. First time I ever joined anything, and
it's kinda neat to have the Gals to ride with, other then my husband and
other couples where I am always the only woman rider, but now there are so
many, and I'm so happy for all of them. And I guess thats about all I
can say for now, am just enjoying life a lot. Keep the Breeze on your
knees. :-) Marian
Dear Marian,
You go gal! And take me with you! I want to bask in your VTwin Mama
awesomeness.
Mama
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Wednesday, June 27
Dear VTwin Mama,
This is for "Rally Virgin Linda"! I
was a pillion (see below) for over 13 years with various
boyfriends. Then I left the scene and settled down. Last year
I bought my own bike as I really missed them. A number of months ago
I decided to go to a rally. I had never gone to a rally completely
alone and it had been about six years since I had been to one. But I
went - I was very nervous, and unsure what to expect.
But I really, really enjoyed myself.
The feeling of sheer independence I felt traveling to it was out of this
world. No man leading me the way!!! No one making all the
decisions!!!!! Just me, my bike and the open road!!!!!
I stopped when I wanted, where I wanted, and only had myself to argue with
when I went the wrong way!!!!! I really, really enjoyed
myself.
I got to the rally and I knew nobody.
But it wasn't long before I got chatting and by the end of the night I'd
had a great time. I was very nervous about pulling up in front of a
lot of bikers as I'm just learning, but I did it without any hassle!!!!!
And I made some new friends. The only advise I can give is to
look after yourself, don't over-do-it on the beer {best not to drink
at all if alone}. And most importantly have a bloody great time!!!!!!
Maggie
Dear Maggie,
You tell her VTwin Mama sister! By the by, I actually had to look
up the word pillion (well you know how easy it is to make typos)
and by gumbo it's an actual word meaning the saddle (or pillow!) behind
the man's seat for the woman. In this reference of course, talking about
you always being the passenger. Wow, you learn something new everyday,
whether you want to or not. Who would have thunk?
Mama
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Thursday, June 28
Dear VTwin Mama,
Hi! I find that all of my serious riding companions are males. Is there
anyway that I can make contact with other female VTwin owners in the
Orlando,
FL area? SoftailCyn
Dear SoftailCyn,
Well let's pull out the ol' VTwin Mama megaphone and see what pops
out of the woodwork. Meanwhile, you could take a glance at the Women
on Wheels site. They've got listings by state of women willing to
communicate. And I know you know about Ridin
the Wind (defunct as of 7/25/01, go to Sisters
and Brothers of The Wall). It's easy to scroll through tons of postings of women
all over the world. Everyone is listed by city and state, so that makes it
pretty easy. Or you could post a message on The Wall - that's another
possibility. And there is VTwin Mama, but we'll just have to wait and see
if anything nibbles from here. Readers, if you didn't catch it, you can
email her right from her name underlined above. Yahoo!
Mama
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Monday, July 16
Dear VTwin Mama,
A friend forwarded your newsletter to me and it is the highlight of my
email inbox. I sold my sport a few years back, when I got pregnant with my
son. Now he is four and I am looking to get back on two wheels in the next
year or so.
I only wish I knew how to get in touch with women riders
when I had my bike. Lot's of times it was a blast being in the only chick
in the pack, and I did lots of my own work on the bike so I could carry on
a decent conversation mechanically speaking. but the camaraderie of female
to female was sorely missed and I, too, encountered the problem of a
boyfriend who had no interest in riding. Women who road on the back of the
bikes didn't seem to want much to do with me and the men in front seemed
to have only one thing in mind. Like I said, it's just good to know there
are so many out there that run into the same things I did.
And that we now have many alternatives to the old
saying, "ass, gas or grass". Take care and keep the rubber side
down and the wind in your hair,
Trish in Anaheim, CA
Dear Trish,
Welcome to the new age of women motorcycling -- which is pretty
much like the old age but with a better way of communicating with each
other! As you get back into riding, you'll find lots of women in your area
ready to hook up and ride. Just visit Women
on Wheels and Ridin the Wind
(defunct as of 7/25/01, go to Sisters
and Brothers of The Wall), to name two.
You are right, "ass, gas or
grass" has given way to sass, class and mass, that is to say, a mass of VTwin Mamas on
the road today! So let those guys bask in the glow of OUR exhaust fumes
for once!
Mama
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Tuesday, July 31
Hi VTwin Mama,
Much to the disappointment of all of us "Wallites," the Ridin'
The Wind Website has been shutdown. This is truly a shame 'cuz it was an
excellent forum for riders of all types to meet and share information.
However, The
Sisters and Brothers of the Wall site is going strong with the
majority of us in the process of making the transition to a bit different
format. We just wanted to let everyone know that we're there and the
invitation is open to those who'd like to join in. Ride Safe All!
Kris
Dear Kris,
Thank you for letting us know about the Wall crash. I've tried to
update all the references we've made to the site over the past month or so
to bring interested VTwin Mama participants to the new site. Either use
the link above, or the full address is http://www.shinnysideup.com.
Mama
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Wednesday,
December 12
Dear VTwin Mama,
Are there other women out there that have the winter blues? Winter hasn't
even begun here in Indiana and I can't wait until spring to be able to get
out and ride! I have 4000 miles under me and was not ready to put my bike
up for the winter. Anyone have any suggestions on how to make the winter
go by fast? Shorty
Dear Shorty,
I have perfected holding my breath, stamping my feet and flailing
my arms around in the middle of my local bike shop, preferably when there
are a lot of people around. It simply doesn't work as well at the
supermarket -- no one understands the performance art aspect of it!
I'm afraid that you might not find this a useful coping
tool so short of moving to a warmer climate, it looks like you'll have to
find another passionate part-time thing to occupy yourself with. Since not
being able to ride brings out the selfish side of us, I would strongly
suggest volunteering somewhere, anywhere. If you choose a place that has a
captive audience and maybe short memories, you could regale them with
riding stories gleaned from your first 4000 miles! Be prepared however to
hear about the time Aunt Snookie got drunk at Christmas and Uncle Herbert
drove into a tree at the edge of town because she was getting "amorous."
Seriously though, lots of folks could use volunteer help at a wide variety
of places. Check into it.
Or perhaps now is the time to read about bikes. I
personally am picking up a copy of Hear Me Roar and Bike Lust in
hopes of them explaining to me why my love of riding has extended for over
22 years. I'm pretty sure I know why, but a book should make that
official! And I love to read.
So VTwin Mama sisters, what are your remedies for the
winter blues? A visit to Daytona for the winter rally? Stripping down your
bike and rebuilding it (hopefully in a heated garage)? Visiting this site
often and flooding me with questions and responses? Let's hear what you've
got to say!
Mama
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Friday,
December 14
Dear VTwin Mama,
We have found planning a few trips for next years riding is a good
way to keep you occupied over the winter months and into the biking mode (see
original winter blues letter). We have read many books, "Hear
me Roar" is great, I've also read about different riding styles,
tours and groups. Find a couple of bike magazines you like and
subscribe to them, American Rider, Woman
Rider, American Cruiser and Sport Rider are all great for information
on all brands of bikes. Join a local bike club, (most brands
have groups around the country) and attend the meetings. A good
way to meet others with the same interest. WOW
is a great group to join for comradery and the excitement of sharing
riding experiences, favorite rides, etc.. We also plan on attending
a few bike shows every winter, what ever is within a days commute.
They are always fun.
We keep our bikes ready to go year round, just in case a
nice day comes up when we can get away ( a winter bonus). We have
also gone south for vacation and rented bikes for a day of riding
around. We found that more fun than Disney. Good luck and Have
Fun. 2B4W
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Monday,
December 31
Dear VTwin Mama,
I checked out the site for Biker
Ally . . . it looks really great! Thank you for finding it for us! I
intend to sign up for it too!
Betty
Dear Betty,
Isn't it amazing to find another riding
magazine geared towards women?! I found it trolling around the Internet in
the weekly search to find another "Cool Link" of the week for
the VTwin Mama newsletter.
I got the subscription, signed up
for the email and got a nice note from Rain (Renate) who is the
publisher/editor. As soon as I see my first issue (she's been up and
running since June 2000) I'll see how VTwin Mama can contribute and we can
all join in the fun. Meanwhile, check it out at www.bikerallymag.com
to see if you are interested also!
Mama
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2002
Wednesday,
January 23
Dear VTwin Mama,
Okay, here's what's exciting me: The International Motorcycle Show
in Cleveland Feb. 1-3. I'll be making the trip from Pittsburgh for sure.
The show is exhibited in other cities as well. (Check it out). Also, I
can't wait for the Rev & Roll show in Pittsburgh. Looking forward to
that in April. By then we'll all be zooming around again. Actually, last
Saturday in "The Burgh" was so nice I did get to ride for a
short while. It felt great! CYA later, Blue skies and green lights.
Vikki
Dear Vikki,
Motorcycle shows are a perennial PMS (parked motorcycle syndrome)
helper -- thanks for pointing that out! A good nationwide (U.S.)
comprehensive listing can be found at MotorcycleEvents.
com. Thanks to VTwin Mama sister April G. for doing the research to
find that site!
If you're interested in seeing some of the
women-specific events coming up throughout the country, click on the Events
section of Motorcycle Madness.
Mama
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Thursday,
January 24
Dear VTwin Mama,
I thought this topic might be of interest to your readers. http://www.harleypeople.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/000408.html.
Linda
Dear Linda,
Upon further exploration of the main site, Harley People, it is
clear this caters mainly to HD-centric people. Now, while VTwin Mama wants
her own site to remain nondenominational, the chat page you indicated had
sort of a cry for help on it, and knowing that some of our sisters are HD
enthusiasts and want to help all women that they can, I thought it right
and proper to pass this along.
So now I want to be nominated for sainthood, or
something equally cool!
Mama (note on 01/01/03: this site seems to have gone belly up)
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Tuesday,
February 5
Dear VTwin Mama,
I am an absolute beginner that had thought 'Why not me?' and went for
it. I took a motorcycle safety course a few months back, which has
convinced me that I want more, but now I seem to be a little stuck. My
problem is that I need a lot more practice to develop some confidence on a
bike, but I don't have any friends that ride so no one can take me out to
get used to feel of it. I am hoping to buy a bike this year, but don't
want to go into it cold. (My boyfriend is an ex-Harley fan who wants one
again when the money is there and has been persuading me to look at
Harley's and Triumphs amongst other options)
I am wondering if anyone knows if there is somewhere
that a beginner, with a license, can hire a bike, practice and/or get a
little experience. Any direction or help you can offer would be
appreciated. I am really interested in this but don't know where to start.
Many thanks and I am looking forward to the next installment of the newsletter.
Gayle in the UK (who turns out to be in Atlanta, GA
actually!)
Dear Gayle,
What an excellent question! And one that I have nary a clue about!
Well, seriously . . . it's true -- who is going to let a
novice practice on their bike? And if you can't practice, how are you to
know what bike you really want to get? Here's one thing I think might help
-- get in contact with other women riders in your area -- they can offer
local guidance and support. Try visiting the Women's International
Motorcycle Association in the UK (WIMA-UK)
to get you started.
Any of my regular UK readers -- it's time to chime in!
Mama
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Thursday,
February 7
For Gayle who needs practice bikes
(who turns out to be from Atlanta, GA not the UK,
but then that was my ass-umption and well let's face it, I'm not perfect.
Although I don't brag about that a lot. At least not in public!)
When I first started motorcycle riding. I bought a Honda
550cb for $150. The motorcycle wasn't running at the time, but that wasn't
too much of a challenge. Two hours, the carbs got cleaned, and it was
running again. It became my practice bike. We still own that one. It
belongs to my son now. My suggestion is buy an old motorcycle that you
wouldn't worry too much about putting a dent in it. Make sure though that
it is a good runner. It wouldn't hurt to have knowledge on how to fix them
either.
Foxee
Have you tried to see if there are any motorcycle rental
places in your vicinity? I have never rented a bike, but that might be a
good place to start! Good luck!
Betsy
Ok, although I goofed up on the UK thing,
I still think that contacting women in your area is good stuff. You can
try Women on Wheels (just click
on your state and see the list of women willing to talk with you) or try
the chat room at Shinny Side Up
to find area riders. (link is at the bottom of this page also).
Mama
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Tuesday,
March 26
Dear VTwin Mama,
I was able to get insurance in
Maryland for liability only for 215/year. Since my bike is several years
old, I figured I didn't need the full coverage. So, that's settled.
My next question is about joining an organization like
Motor Maids or Women on Wheels. Do most women only belong to one? Can you
belong to two or is that unheard of? It seems like both of them have a lot
of exciting things going on, but neither of them have a chapter near me,
and as a beginner I can't drive out to meet them in different cities. What
is the protocol in this situation? Your help is much appreciated.
I have already contacted both organizations (WOW and
Motor Maids), and now I just can't decide which one would be better, or if
it was fine to join both. I think that WOW will have something closer to Baltimore, but you can still find out for me. I would appreciate it. So, I
picked up my bike on Saturday and did some driveway practice. What a rush.
I am so excited. I am like a little kid in a candy store. I have a huge
smile on my face. Thanks for everything. I will talk to you soon.
Tcool in Baltimore
Dear Tcool (Terri),
Congrats on getting the new bike and firing it up in the driveway -- it's
an awesome first step! As promised, I contacted WOW and Motor Maids and
received this reply from Jan Barrett, President of Motor Maids:
Good to hear from you. Let me see if I can add some
insight to some of the questions you have shared. First, do most women
belong to an organization such as the MMs or WOW. That is hard to say --
how do you define most. Joining an organization isn't for everyone. But
more and more women seem to enjoy the networking one gains from being a
part of an organization. I personally have gained friendships through the
MMs that I would maintain even if I was no longer in the organization.
There are several other benefits of being a part of a club. One is the
support you have readily available. There are more women coming to the
sport of motorcycling who have never had any experience with it. So being
involved in an organization adds valuable support from others who have
'been there, done that." Another asset of belong to an organization
is the organizational activities provide a varied assortment of
destinations. I have been in every state (except HA) on a motorcycle and
several of those I may not have gone to except that we had a MM event
there to attend.
Can you belong to two organizations -- yes, you can
belong to as many organizations as you wish. We have many MM members who
also belong to WOW, WITW, BMWMOA, GWRRA, etc. As to 'chapters' near Terri
-- I know WOW as well as WITW have local chapters. The Motor Maid
membership is divided instead by district. A district can be one or more
states, or even an half a state. The district size can be intimidating for
a new rider. In our districts though, the veteran riders will always try
work with the limitations of a new rider. As the new rider develops in her
experience, it will gradually become easier to venture out of her familiar
turf. The more you ride the distance you ride becomes less of a factor. I
hope this adds some insight or at least a different perspective. Thanks.
Jan Barrett, President, Motor Maids
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Friday,
March 29
Dear VTwin Mama and Terri (who wanted
more info on joining riding orgs),
Motor Maids and Women On Wheelsฎ have several members in
common. Many women enjoy the benefits of both organizations. As you
mentioned, both groups provide many exciting activities while offering
completely different group dynamics.
As far as not being able to commute to participate with
either group because of the distance involved, there is really only one
solution. Perhaps you could pay them one visit, see how they do things
and start your own chapter!! I have frequently seen this situation and have
been able to assist a new rider in recruiting others to her new sport! Some
have felt that they don' t know enough about motorcycling yet to charge off
and do something so risky, but after learning just how much support they can
get from Women On Wheelsฎ, they've given it a try.
Barb Grueschow, President, Women on Wheels
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Tuesday,
April 9
Dear VTwin Mama,
I am looking for other women riders in sunny Southern California. My road
name is Teazer and my given name is Suzanne. Hope to hear from you soon.
Teazer
Dear Teazer,
Well, first we'll see if any of the VTwin Mama sisters are in your
area and are interested in corresponding! Also, check out your local
chapters of Women on Wheels or Motor Maids. Last, try the chat group
Shinny Side Up -- they've got lots of women who chat regularly. The logos
for these three sites are at the bottom of this home page, so just scroll
down and click to check it out!
Mama
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Wednesday,
April 17
Dear VTwin Mama,
I used to ride long before my daughter was born but now that she's a teen
and I have a little more freedom I am looking to get back into riding. I'm
going to take the MSF course
to help me feel comfortable on a bike again so I'm not worried about that.
What I AM worried about is finding other women to ride with since all the
guys I know with bikes have a "just the guys" attitude about
riding together. I live in the Nashua, NH area and was hoping to hook up
with a couple biker girls.
Re-Newbie (aka CJ) (riding her Dad's old
Kawi but looking at a HD 883 Hugger and could use input on this)
Dear Re-Newbie (CJ),
Well I'm so glad you found the VTwin Mama site -- lots of info,
lots of sharing, lots of caring. Check the links at the bottom of this
homepage to discover the key women's riding clubs. And don't forget to try
the chat room at Shinny Side Up 'cause they have got tons of women from
all over chatting at that site. If any VTwin Mama sisters are reading this
and from that area, contact CJ at CVinal@kronos.com.
Also, check out the Archive Section under the Type
of Bike to Ride -- lots of women's opinions of many of the most
popular bike models around.
Mama
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Thursday,
April 18
Dear VTwin Mama,
I am from India. I am currently on a project on 4-stroke motorbikes. The
irony is, I don't know how to start one also. I would love to have an
introduction on bikes from you. This is important as I am really eager to
learn. You could also give me some websites to look out for. Thank you,
with warm regards
Anu
Dear Anu,
I am so glad you found the VTwin Mama site! Welcome!
Here are some basics -- make sure the
clutch is in "neutral", the gas lever is in the "on"
position, turn the key in the ignition to "on" and hit the start
switch. If the bike you have is running at all, this should start it.
Walter Kern writes a good
basic beginning guide to motorcycles on his website (click on the
underlined link). And, if you go to my Links
section, you will find other websites for beginner bikers, like the
online magazine Beginner Bikes.
If any of the VTwin Mama sisters is
interested in becoming an "email pal," contact Anu at buksi79@yahoo.co.in.
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Thursday,
April 18
Dear VTwin Mama,
I have just spent the last half hour reading your website and I must say
you and your friends are very interesting. I have a V-Twin myself --
Yamaha 535 Virago (must pass my test b4 I get caught or killed -- ssshhhhh,
don't tell ! ;-)
Great site ! If any of you are in England, look me up,
you would be most welcome. Kind Regards
Mark Chamberlin
Dear Mark,
It must be international day here at VTwin Mama! Good to hear from you. If
any of the VTwin Mama sisters is contemplating a trip to England, or just
wishes to correspond, contact Mark at markchamberlin@ntlworld.com.
Mama
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Wednesday,
April 24
Dear VTwin Mama,
Hubby and I are going on vacation (on bikes of course and camping) in July
to the Northern California area (around Bishop). Maybe some of your VTwin
Mama Sisters out there know this area and could tell us what sites to see
and maybe some great rides.
Barbara
Dear Barbara,
Well, I ride that area a bit. Right up the road from Bishop is Mammoth
Lakes -- gorgeous riding. Basically, you're right in the Sierra Nevada
Mountains (and it's various ranges), with tons of mountain passes every
which way you turn. Farther north is Bridgeport and if you follow a little
bit more you'll find the tiny town of Markleville -- stop in at the local
biker hangout for good food and fun (all of a sudden the name eludes me,
but the town is about two blocks long!). There's an art festival for
bikers June 29 in Markleville and the Mammoth Lakes Rally is from June
28-30th. But that stuff may be too early for your run. Or you could head
west a little from Lee Vining and go into Yosemite National Park. Oodles
of stuff!
Let me know exactly when you'll be in
the area and maybe we can meet up with a group from Carson City/Reno area!
Mama
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Tuesday,
May 21
Dear VTwin Mama,
Just got my Shadow VLX and I'm loving it! Dropped her once making a left
turn (handle bars turned too far) and tried to power her back up using my
arm strength. Needless to say, that didn't work. Nice passer-by helped me
out. I did see the tips on picking
up your bike so next time I'll be ready. Thank you for doing this web
site! It has so much information at my level of understanding.
And if anybody lives in the Scranton, PA area --
I'd love to ride with a few VTwin Mamas! I do ride with my boyfriend but
he doesn't have the time to go on a lot of rides. Thanks again.
Debbie tigerdrusso@netscape.net
Dear Debbie,
Welcome to the VTwin Mama site -- we're so glad you found us!
There's nothing like a kind person passing by to help you in times of
oopsies, but yes, it's important that you learn how to take care of
yourself and your bike as much as possible, so I'm glad you are finding
things on this site to help you learn more. As you can see, I've posted
your email address for any sisters in the area interested in contacting
you. Also, scroll to the bottom of the home page for the
www.ShinnySideUp.com chat room -- a great way to meet other sisters around
the country!
Mama
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Thursday,
May 23
Dear VTwin Mama,
I just discovered you and have spent every spare moment reading the
wonderful messages from everyone. I'm from Connecticut and am starving for
anything to do with women riders. My husband and I started a Star
Touring & Riding chapter last year of which I am the Representative
for Ladies of the Star. Unfortunately there are only a few women who
participate and only two of us with our own mounts. I have a Yamaha Royal
Star and have put 15k on it in two years. It's great to hear so many good
things about the V-Star 650. I'm almost 6 ft tall and just needed something
bigger for myself. Thanks for creating such a great site. Feels like I've
got a multitude of new friends.
Cindy
Dear Cindy,
Thanks for the "atta grrl" Cindy because it goes a long
way to keeping me chugging away at providing this site (and the free
newsletter). As to your Star Touring & Riding chapter, consider
logging onto the ShinnySideUp chat room and posting your message there --
lots of women riders participate and you might find some more people to ride
with!
And yes, this site promotes well-being among all women
riders, no matter what style of bike, make or model. We're non-demoninational!
So jump right in with your questions, responses or observations. It's the
fuel that powers this site.
Mama
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Friday,
May 31
Dear VTwin Mama,
Hi! I love getting your
emails -- it keeps me up on things. I'm a fairly new rider, I
had my license since 1993 but never got to ride much because of the birth
of my son. My husband and I had a Suzuki Intruder 1400, I learned on
that bike, but always thought it was to big for me.
Ten years later, after my divorce, I thought I would
ride again. So I bought a '95 Virago 750, and I love it. It's red &
cream in color and its all mine. I'm looking for a female bike club in the
Chicago area -- if you know of any please let me know -- a cruiser
club would be really cool.
Also, is it out-dated to wear the fringe leather jackets
-- are there still a lot of bikers into fringe. I'm 44 years old and I
don't want to look too dated. This web site, Fox Creek Leather has a
really cool fringe jacket I like..Looking forward to hearing from you.
No name
Dear No name but we love you
anyway,
Fringe out of style?!?!?!?! -- NEVER NEVER NEVER. That would mean
the Bon Jovi style jacket in leather and suede I bought back in the 80's
(ok, it's a little tight on me these days!) would be dated and trust me on
this -- Bon Jovi NEVER goes out of style! ! ! ! People have often told me
that they LOVE seeing fringe flying down the road -- it's just sooooo
inspiring! If YOU like it -- buy it! The essence of a rider is freedom --
freedom of choice in any matter! So there. (Does anyone know the computer
symbol/emoticon for sticking out their tongue?)
Meanwhile, check the links at the bottom of the home
page and connect up with a Motor Maids, Women in the Wind or Women on
Wheels chapter in your area. Tons to choose from. Also, as I mentioned in
my personal email to you, my old friend Skip (nice male type) runs a site
specifically for Chicago motorcyclists at http://www.chicagomotorcycleguide.com,
so check that out as well.
So you just go VTwin Mama sister. Your
sass and class will carry you far, and for anything else, we're here for you
100%.
Mama
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Monday, June 3
Dear VTwin Mama,
For No Name looking for a women's
riding club in Chicago: If I remember right, Rain (Biker Ally) also
rides a Virago and is located just outside the Chicago area. Maybe
"No Name" could look up the Virago
Owners Club on the web. I have personally met the folks in this area
(actually about an hours' drive from me) and they made me feel like a part
of the club at first meeting.
Betty
Dear Betty,
Rain is just going to kill me 'cause I forgot that she is in
Bartlett, IL and would be a good source of inspiration for No Name in
Chicago. She owns the Biker Ally
magazine and can be reached at rain@bikerallymag.com.
Thanks for noticing that Betty! Also, the hyperlink for the Virago Owners
Club is http://www.viragoownersclub.org/.
Mama
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Friday, June
7
New Chicago WOW chapter forming
Dear VTwin Mama,
I just thought I would let you know that a brand new Chicago chapter of Women
on Wheels is currently in the process of forming. We have an upcoming
meeting scheduled for Friday, June 21st, 7:30pm at Janina's at the corners
of Milwaukee and Keeler Avenues in Chicago. Please come and check it out
if you can. We're trying to get this chapter off the ground and would like
to see more women from the Chicago metro area join! If you or any other
lady riders in the Chicago area would like more information on this new
WOW chapter, please inquire at Sheridesthewind1@aol.com!
Linda in Illinois (note from Mama -- thanks for the announcement)
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Wednesday, June 26
Dear VTwin Mama,
In regard to No Name, the message in which she asked about
fringe being outdated and if there was a riding club near her in the Chicago
area. Yes, there is a WOW chapter and there is a chapter of the Virago
Owners Club called the Chicago Cruisers. I happen to be the President of
both the local chapter and the international club. If she has any problems
with her Virago, my group is ready and willing to help out (we know these
bikes inside out). I ride a '94 750 Virago and it's loaded with fringe. In
fact my levers and hand grips have fringe that go all the way to the ground.
And no, they don't even hit me, so no pain on the road, just a cool look.
However, if I had a passenger they would be slapped silly.
Rain at www.bikerallymag.com (note
from Mama: thanks for the input Rain -- I think a little "sting"
from fringe can be really good when you've been on the road all day and need
something to keep you awake!)
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Friday, August 2
Dear VTwin Mama,
I bought a Honda Shadow VLX 600C and I am also looking for other
"motorcycle-Moms" here in Chesapeake/Norfolk. Is there something
like a chapter of the VTwin Mama's?
We moved into the USA in March 02 with our 2 boys. In our
former home (Germany) is it allowed to take the kids, who can reach the foot
rest and wear a helmet, on the back of the motorcycle. Now we are also
looking for the law here in Virginia. Can you tell me someone who can give
me the right law?
Andrea Tolk
Dear Andrea,
Welcome to America and the VTwin Mama site -- we're glad you found
us -- VTwin Mama that is (I assume you had no problem locating the U.S.!)
At the bottom of the home page you'll find a number of
wonderful women riding organizations and their links -- these groups have
chapters all over the U.S. No, VTwin Mama is just an advice column at this
point, but who knows what the future will bring. Check out Women in the
Wind, Women on Wheels and Motor Maids for like-minded women riders. Also,
consider going to the ShinnySideUp chat room and posting your message --
they have an active group of readers and you might hook up with women
riders there. This link is at the bottom of this home page as well.
For the riding laws in this country, there is a great page
on the American Motorcycle Association's (AMA) website at http://www.ama-cycle.org/amaccess/laws/.
Just click on the state you need to know about and everything is spelled
out. Also, check out the Archive Page at VTwin
Mama -- there are lots of great websites that we've investigated that you
might find interesting as well.
Mama
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Friday, August 9
Dear VTwin Mama,
I live in NJ, the town is Hampton, and I heard that there is a Women's
Motorcycle Club called Spokes. Can you tell me anything about it? All the
other clubs are not close to me.
Shadow Mama
Dear Shadow Mama,
You can find the Spokes-Women Motorcycle Club by visiting their
website at http://www.spokes-women.com/.
They've got a newsletter, member profiles, links and an email contact
listed.
This is from their site: "Currently, our meetings are
held in Piscataway, New Jersey. Our President, Barbara Zimmerman, may be
reached at 732-967-9211. If you get an answering machine, just leave a
message and Barbara will get back to you."
Sound like the thing to do!
Mama
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Monday, August 12
Dear VTwin Mama,
I would like to know if there are woman in my area that ride -- I'm in
Lakewood, CA. Doesn't matter what they ride -- age doesn't matter. . .
well. . . I think 100 will be the limit. Email holy_slipper@yahoo.com.
I love hearing the woman over 50 learning to ride. Also, if you don't pass
the safety class the first time, do it again -- the instructor may
be very different and not want things so perfect. A new learner can't do
all the techniques to perfection. My first instructor wanted everything
perfect, the second told us "now I've taught you the techniques, now
you have to go and practice, practice, practice" That's what it
takes.
Georgia
Dear Georgia,
Any VTwin Mama sisters in Georgia's area can email her at the above
address. Hope no women riders 100+ in age are offended!
Mama
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Friday, October 18
Dear VTwin Mama,
I was wondering if there was anybody out there from the state of Washington. I am a relatively new rider (a custom Vulcan 750 that mom
bought me just before she died) but an "old gal" who is looking
for others who like to ride. Was just wondering. Also, would like to know
how to become a participant in some of the large group rides I've seen and
heard about. Thanks!
Patti (sweetpgirlygirl@yahoo.com)
Dear Patti,
Wow, what a great remembrance from your Mom. Sorry to hear that
you lost her. Any VTwin Mama sisters in your area can contact you via your
email. For the big women's riding groups, scroll to the bottom of the home
page and you'll see all the links!
Mama
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Tuesday, October 22
Dear VTwin Mama,
Hey, just found your site. What a great find on this dreary Saturday
morning. I am a resident of Washington (Snohomish to be exact). Have
been riding a V-Twin for 3 years now - 1500 Kawasaki Drifter. Would love
to hear from other WA state riders who want to get together and ride. I
belong to VROC (Vulcan Riders & Owners Group), and the VDOGs (Vulcan
Drifter Owners Group), ABATE, and would love to hear from others.
It's an ongoing struggle in the motorcycle world to establish credibility
concerning women and motorcycles, and the more we get "in their
faces" the quicker the task will be accomplished.
I'll be an active contributor to this site from now on,
and I will be ordering T-shirts, not
only for me but for all my other compadres who ride.
Concerning the MSF
class - People tell me I handle my bike at least better if not much
better than most men around and I almost failed the MSF class. I think it
was the perfectionist streak in me - wanting to do everything absolutely
perfect first time around. Well, surprise. What you do in the
class and how you do it really, in the end, has very little bearing on how
you will succeed with your motorcycle. Take the basic info, put it to
use, and RIDE, RIDE, RIDE. I have 23,000 miles on my bike, mostly 400-500
mile trips, a couple of 2500 mile trips, and seriously, that is what
it takes.
I look forward to communicating with all the VTMs - glad I
found you!
K. Knapp, Snohomish, WA
Dear K.,
So there you are! Glad you found us! For those in the Washington
area, contact Karen at res1aaye@verizon.net
to get together. And thanks for your take on the riding course experience.
Always useful stuff.
Mama
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Wednesday, October
23 For Santa Barbara,
CA area riders
Dear VTwin Mama,
I am submitting a link I thought you may be interested in: http://www.sbc-rides.com.
The site is free to all users and is focused on rides
located in Santa Barbara County. The site went online 8/5/02 and already has
an enormous amount of content. New rides will be added each week until we
have all of SB County included. Cheers!
Jeffrey Donovan (jeff@sbc-rides.com)
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Friday, October 25
Dear VTwin Mama,
This is a very interesting page. Thought I'd pass it along.
Sharon
http://www.ridemyown.com/riders/
Dear Sharon,
This is HOT! It's a site for women riders who are seeking other
riders in their specific area. Just click on your location in the world,
etc. To register, email map@ridemyown.com!
Yahoo. Great idea!
Mama
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Wednesday, November 13
Dear VTwin Mama,
I just found your web site and I love it! There is so much wonderful
information here and everyone seems really friendly and helpful. I was even
more surprised when I see that you live close by me. I am up in Incline
Village! Are there any women rider groups or clubs in our area? Thanks!
Karen
Dear Karen,
Ah, you've found me out! From the very beginning of my riding odyssey
(started in 1979), I tended to be a lone "she wolf" rider -- mostly
because I found it difficult to get together with friends (who have kids and
other commitments) and the fact that I like to start my ride in the
impossibly early a.m. timeframe. The Internet was just a gleam in someone's
eye at that time (for us regular folk), so there was no easy connection
point, at least none that I ever found.
That said, now there are multitudes of ways to find riding
groups in any area. For you, I'd log onto the SierraScooterScope
site which broadcasts all the rides, events, etc. in our Sierra Mountain
area (and under the Local Interest side link, they've got a listing of local
clubs). I've also just recently discovered a new site dedicated to hooking
up riders at http://www.ridemyown.com/riders
for U.S., Canada and the International scene. Then, you can also check the
links at the bottom of the home page for the more organized women groups and
chat forums to see what's around. I know that one of the local Carson City
sisters (Amy) was working on getting a chapter of Women on Wheels started
here. Last, but not least, there are riding groups organized around the
manufacturer of your bike (like Honda groups, etc.) which can be found by
using a good search engine.
So,
begin your search there and maybe we'll put together a VTwin Mama ride next
year around Lake Tahoe!
Mama
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2003
Thursday, January 23
Dear VTwin Mama,
You mentioned being a member of LOH. Where are the NH Chapters located? I am
in the Lakes Region, love to ride and would like to find a LOH chapter close
to home. Thanks
Donna
Dear Donna,
As far as I understand it (which might not be far enough!), Ladies
of Harley is an extension of the Harley Owners Group (HOG). You can find HOG
chapters here, and then make further enquirers whether they support an
LOH extension as well. There are nine HOG chapters in NH, so my bet is
that at least some of them have LOH. Readers, if I've gotten this wrong,
please let me know!
Mama
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Thursday, January 23
Dear VTwin Mama,
I found this site and am looking for a female biker to correspond with. My
husband and I have been riding for several years and he has people with whom
he has contact. I, on the other hand, know no one that rides that is a
female to talk with via email. Any one out there interested? I see your site
is in Nevada and I used to live in Ely -- now I live in Washington state. I
ride a Yamaha Seca ll -- no longer produced. Hopefully I can find some one
who would like a pen pal.
Linda
Dear Linda,
The Internet is a wonderful tool to meet new people! Check at the
bottom of the home page for several of the leading women's riding groups
that you might join and post your message at ShinnySideUp -- a great chat
forum where lots of women riders meet each other. You'll also find other
"get together" sites listed on my Cool
Links page and by reading the Hooking
Up archive section. Readers, anyone in WA interested in contacting
Linda directly can email her at lkallery@mymethow.com.
Mama
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Monday, February 24
Dear VTwin Mama,
Thanks so much for all your hard work and circulating
the newsletter -- I enjoy it very much. I have a question for
you: do you know of any site, group or forum that specifically supports
lesbians and motorcycling? Any info is appreciated.
E.
Dear E.,
Thank you for your kind words and letting me know that this site
and the Newsletter are of value to you. I did a search for you about gay
riders and the best site I found was the GayScape
site directory that lists clubs for gay riders in different areas of
the country, so that might be a place to start your search. Any readers
with a better directory -- please share your information!
Mama
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Wednesday, February 26
Dear VTwin Mama,
You have done a wonderful job on making this an informative and
interesting website. There is only one other thing I would personally like
to see. Maybe a list of all your subscribers by location. I for one
am always looking for new ladies to ride with here in Central Florida.
Just my .02 worth.
Thumper in Tavares, FL
Dear Thumper,
Glad you like the site! My privacy policy has always been to post
only that information which is expressly approved by the submitter and I
don't share my lists with anyone. That said, please note that I've
reworked the navigation bar to the left to show in more detail the types
of subject matter that is archived on this site. One category is Meeting
Other Riders -- a place for VTwin Mama sisters to post their desire to
meet others, so that's where I'll slug your letter. Readers, you can
contact Thumper at terri49us@yahoo.com
to hook up!
Mama
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Monday, March 10
Dear VTwin Mama,
If I could get a few ladies in Central
Florida interested, I would like to start a Women in the Wind group - but
I'll need help!
April
Dear April,
Well, it sounds like a good idea, so I'm posting your message for
any readers who are interested! VTwin Mama sisters in that area, just send
me a note and I'll pass it on to April!
Mama
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Monday, March 10
For E.
who is wondering if there are any specific forums, groups or sites that
support lesbians and motorcycling:
Was reading some old posts and came across the one from
E. I have been searching the web for a while (a few months ago now) and
have found some sites possibly more useful to E. than me as I'm from New
Zealand and they are all U.S. clubs (I am assuming she is American).
There is a group called Desert Hearts Club and one
called Dykes on Bikes (she may have to search the names as I don't
remember the URL) I had to do a number of searches using different
phrasing to find sites "gay biker" etc.. some were
specifically lesbian some were men only and some were for both. I'm
sorry I can't remember them now, it was a while ago now.
There are also some gay search engines. E. might like to
try one called Gayzoo. There are a few and it looks like I cleaned
out my favorites folder too well -- opps!
If E. would like to e mail me she is more than welcome
to. I hope some of this helps.
MJ
Dear MJ,
Thanks for passing on your information! I've added the
hyperlinks right into your own message. Note: Desert Hearts Club has no
political agenda, but is a women's motorcycle club based in Phoenix,
AZ.
Mama
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Wednesday, April 2
Dear VTwin Mama,
I can relate to not being able to hook up with a local group for riding. I
have been riding for 20+ years and was limited to riding with my husband and
the guys. Although I enjoyed just being able to get out and ride, I needed
female companionship to share my rides. Men seem to have a different agenda
than women.
Fortunately, one of the wives of the guys we rode with
wanted to start riding. She contacted me and it was the start of what I
dreamed of, a group of my own. She knew of other women riders who were just
getting started or had ridden for a few years. We had our first meeting of
the Hi-way Honey's last year and we've had several group rides or short
destinations since. We are planning for another summer of riding together
when we can. Our ages are varied and our bikes are non-denominational. Any
thing you want. We just enjoy getting together and riding. If you are
interested in our group which is located within the Orland Park to New Lenox
area, contact me at Don3845jo@aol.com
or call Joanne at 815-485-3351. We're glad to have new members. There are no
dues to pay, just enthusiasm to ride.
Joanne
Dear Joanne,
I know you wrote this in response to Terri, but I couldn't find the
original letter to link to. By your phone number's area code, this indicates
that you are the Northwest area of Illinois somewhere, so anyone in
that area interested, contact Joanne for more info. I hope I got this right!
Mama
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Friday,
May 2
Dear VTwin Mama,
Hello from Australia. Just a quick email to say that both my wife and
myself like your website very much.
Terri was delighted to find info about making clutch
pull easier, I've emailed American Legends to see if the AMP clutch
reduction kit will fit on Terri's Ducati. Terri has recently got a 600
Ducati Monster with a factory fitted 680 racing kit, twin disc kit, solo
seat and two into one Conti Italian pipe. ( sounds awesome). She's been
riding for many years and holds a Motorcycle Instructors license.
I've been riding so long I'm outlasted several bike
manufacturers. That's all for now, again, great site. Best wishes Kevin and Terri PS: If anyone wants any info about touring Oz
on a bike just send an email to jaqhama@yahoo.com.
Dear Kevin and Terri,
So . . . where's the picture
of you two with your bikes?!?!?! Glad the site is fun and providing
useful information -- I try really, really hard! Thanks for taking the
time to write in, and to offer your contact for those who might be heading
down under sometime soon. I appreciate it and hope to hear from you two
again! Mama
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Wednesday,
May 7
Dear VTwin Mama,
I bought a new Harley FLHFXSTELURU4ME Springer Super Electra Glide
Classic Special. I have bolted on every part from the Harley-Davidson
Catalog. I cruise all of the Delaware Ave. clubs every weekend but I still
can't get a date. What should I do? Billy, South Philly
Dear Billy,
When you're out for those weekend
cruises, stop the bike every once in awhile and actually get off! Resist the
temptation to stare at yourself in all that chrome. Do not call women babes
or chicks when they tell you how cool your bike is. Do not pretend you are
cool at all -- it's so uncool, and if you want a date, talk nice and mean
it. Pre-emptive strike (since I don't know you) -- clean clothes, hair and
nails, check for b.o. and use mouthwash. Limit the number of skulls on your
T-shirt, jacket, bandana, etc. -- and no items with blood dripping anywhere.
Do not pretend to like Barry Manilow if you really don't. They'll find out
pretty quick. Mama
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Tuesday,
May 13
Dear VTwin Mama,
A new women's motorcycle club has formed in Iowa called the Hawkeye
Cruisers. I've built a website both for the club and for women
motorcyclists in general. Thanks. Liz Stanley
Dear Liz,
Thanks for bringing your
club and website to the attention of VTwin Mama! Mama
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Tuesday,
May 13
For Billy who cruises
regularly but isn't meeting anyone:
Hubby says chances are he's a real dog. Even so, a
little common courtesy and a little less cave-man ought to do the trick.
Women like bikes, women also like dangerous men (but only for a short
time). We're all looking for that special someone with sticking power,
to be our rocks when the going gets rough. (I feel like I'm telling
our secrets here). . . Traci (note from Mama: secrets, no -- common sense, yes! Still, not
everyone has a clue!)
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Saturday,
May 17
For
Billy who cruises regularly but isn't meeting anyone:
Put on your Sponge
Bob shorts and invite a woman to Chuckie Cheese! It'll show you at least
have a sense of humor! Viki (note from Mama: can you believe I had to do a Google search to
see what these were?!?!?! Hilarious. Thanks for the laugh!)
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Monday,
June 9
Dear VTwin Mama,
Hi, I am recently divorced and live in Oklahoma. I don't know anyone
to ride with because my ex-husband was always my riding partner. I have
heard of a woman's riding group in Oklahoma City, but can't find any contact
info. Also, if there are any woman out there from my area that would like to
get together and ride I would love meeting new people and any information on
a woman's group. Thank you for any of your assistance. Lou Ann
Dear Lou Ann,
Sorry to
hear about the divorce, but glad you're looking for new riding partners!
Women In The Wind (WITW) has an Oklahoma chapter called Leather Angels. You
can contact them at: Catbach@aol.com,
4018 Fairview Rd, Bartlesville OK 74006. You can also try this email
address for Motor Maids to learn more about what's happening with them in
Oklahoma: kmahaf@msn.com.
Also, there is an ABATE
chapter is Tulsa. Hope these three suggestions get you headed in the
right direction! Mama
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Monday,
June 9
Dear VTwin Mama,
Hi, I would first like to say what a cool site. I found you from a link at Biker
Ally magazine. I am 43 and live in the U.K. At a V.S.O.C rally
here in the U.K I met Cindy from
Steel Divas. Until then I wasn't aware there were sites like this. I
ride a Virago 750. Keep up the good work -- it's nice to know that we
as female bikers are recognized at last. Just wish it was like that in the
U.K.. Terri
Dear Terri,
Good to
hear from you and glad you found the VTwin Mama site! Yes, it does take a
bit of doing, but there are a number of great sites for women
motorcyclists. Although I admit I haven't done much trolling for UK info,
I do know that The Women's International Motorcycle Association has a
presence in the UK with 13 "chapters" and 450 members throughout
the UK. If you haven't already heard about them, you can find more info at
http://www.wima-gb.co.uk/.
Meanwhile, don't be shy
about asking questions or providing your own insights to other questions
posed at this site. We'd love to hear more from you!
Mama
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Tuesday,
June 24
For Lou Ann who is
looking for people to ride with in Oklahoma:
About a women's riding site in OKC, (I live in Hinton, 50
miles West of OKC), there is one called Just Us Girls (J.U.G.S.) at
405-409-5742, www.jugsokc.org. They meet once a week, take rides around
Oklahoma, etc. Hope this helps.
Snoma (note from Mama: thanks
for the tip. Lou Ann could also check the riders map at I
Ride My Own for more women riders in her area.)
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New WITW Chapter
Forms in Central Florida
A new Central Florida Chapter of Women in the Wind (WITW)
called the Chrome Angels has formed in Orlando. While they had their kickoff
meeting and ride on Sunday, August 17th, you can contact Jessi "SunDancer"
Sills at SunDancer1@cfl.rr.com
or (407) 719-0745 for more information. The Chapter is open to all women
over 18 and all bike types and will focus on supporting charities to benefit
women and children, particularly the battle against breast cancer both
nationally and locally.
Tuesday,
September 23
Dear
VTwin Mama,
I live in Las Vegas. You'd think there'd be plenty of men that ride to meet
here, right? Well I am not having any luck. I met guys from CA or AZ or even
AK, but can't seem to meet someone from Las Vegas! Any help would be greatly
appreciated. I just moved here, from NY state about 2 yrs ago. I just worked
Las Vegas Bikefest, but still no one.
Lonely in Las Vegas
Dear
Lonely,
Omigosh -- I've NEVER met someone while riding that I ended up
dating -- and you would think that as a rider since 1979, SOMETHING
would have happened!
While
riding is a unifying force between riders, the fact is that riders come from
such a diversified group of individuals who don't necessarily define
themselves only by their riding, but by their work or play or volunteering
or . . . you get my drift. Unless they are hardcore bikers. And my guess is
that you're interested in someone a bit more well-rounded in life choices,
but who also rides.
I
won't dribble on about "appearing desperate" as this is truly a
demeaning way to make women feel guilty about being honest about what they
want. However, you don't mention whether or not you have cultivated a wider
range of riding friends to spend time with. Is your desire to meet a man
overshadowing your ability to make friends in general because it's so
obvious that you're not interested in people who might not be potential date
mates?
So,
get your butt out there in the big wide world of potential. If you ride a
Harley, join the local HOG chapter to ride with both men and women and get
to know the group. If you ride a metric bike, then check with the local
dealers to discover what riding groups are around.
Or,
approach this from another direction -- get in touch with women riding
groups in your area -- check the top of my Cool
Links page for the top groups and do a little searching on the Internet
for other local groups. Where there are women riders, there is fun! And
where there is fun . . . ! And these gals are going to know the local scene,
where to go, what to avoid, etc. maybe even better than you already do. And
friends are always good to have.
Or,
try a specific match-making Internet site for riders. There are several. Try
Biker Date or Harley
Match (which is not only Harley riders).
I
truly understand your desire to meet someone -- I am in exactly the same
position -- so hopefully these suggestions may help. Mama
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November 20
Dear
VTwin Mama,
I've had my bike since last spring and have gone on a few rides with a few
folks. I'm looking for something like a women's motorcycle group in the San
Francisco/ East Bay Area. I ride a cruiser, and like to go for long
leisurely Sunday rides... Do you have any suggestions as to where I can find
such a group?
Wizzerd
Dear
Wizzerd,
Definitely check out my Cool
Links page -- you'll see most of the women's riding groups with their
logos at the top, linked to their sites. My guess is that in your area,
you'll find representation from more than one group. Also, some bike
manufactures have separate ladies groups (like Harley) which you might want
to call about to the local dealers (as my local Harley dealer's woman group
doesn't care what kind of bike you ride!).
Mama
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Tuesday,
January 13
Dear
VTwin Mama,
Would like to share our website !!! www.highwaychicks.com.
Debbie T., President, HC WMC
Dear
Debbie,
Thanks for the heads up! Note to readers -- this site is geared for
very serious minded women riders.
Mama
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Wednesday, March
17
Dear
VTwin Mama,
Hi all....just been riding now for 3 months...have a Yamaha Route 66 250 v
twin, with 2002 Virago front forks...Harley tank and fenders....I have been
told that if engine problems happen with this bike I may have to trash it
and start over -- what do ya think...and by the way I am short and it fits
and drives like a dream...just right...I am loving the nicer weather.. going
to Easyriders bike show on the 20th of March here in Dallas and would love
to correspond with other riders.. also ride buddies south of Dallas in
DeSoto. Thanks.
Diane
Dear
Diane,
Thank your friend for referring you to the VTwin Mama site -- a
great place to ask questions and share info. Your bike sounds like a true
one-of-a-kind bike (!) but the engine is the engine and if you haven't
been fiddling with it too much, why should it give you problems?!
Have
fun at the show coming up this weekend, and any readers interested in
hooking up, just send me an email and I'll forward them to Diane. Keep in
mind that the VTwin Mama Let's
Ride List is an option to explore for like-minded VTwin Mama sisters!
Mama
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Tuesday,
April 20
Dear
VTwin Mama,
I am new to Reno and am also a new rider. I am 44 years old and a female. I
have a 650lb Suzuki Savage and I love it. First time on a bike in 30 years .
. . but I don't know anyone in Reno and know nothing about where to ride but
I don't like to ride alone. If there was a club here I could talk to for
women riders, I would so appreciate it. Thanks.
Michelle
Dear
Michelle,
Not to fret! I live down in Carson City, just 30 miles south of
Reno and can tell you for a fact that the Harley Ladies Riding Chapter
(sub chapter of the main HOG chapter), welcomes ALL riders, no matter what
bike make/model they ride, and they have meetings and get togethers and
plan rides, and you would be more than welcome! So, if I were you, I'd
call both the Reno and the Carson Harley dealers and ask how to get in
touch with the ladies!
Unfortunately,
at this time, we do not have a Women on Wheels or Women In The Wind
chapters here in Northern Nevada, but many Northern Nevada women riders
get in touch with the closest California chapters and join them! Check my Cool
Links page for links to these sites.
Although
my own personal schedule tends to be jammed, I'd be happy to join you in a
ride to show you around the "neighborhood" so to speak and will
email you separately with my contact info so we can talk!
Mama
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Sunday, May 30
Great
site, Mama!
As I browsed your site, I stumbled across the photo
gallery - WOW! So many lovely ladies, of all descriptions,
riding their own bikes (sigh). As a single male (divorced) biker,
I've decided that should I every get into another long-term relationship,
my significant other will have a similar, if not the same, passion for
motorcycles.
My
question: Given the male-rider to female rider ratio is 2000 to 1,
how does one go about meeting eligible female bikers? Have you ever
considered a personal-ad section to your website? I would be the
first in-line to place a personal-ad (LoL). Keep up the GREAT work!
LoneSomeDove in New Orleans ('97 Valkyrie Tourer)
Dear
LoneSomeDove,
Glad you like the site and wrote in! My initial reaction to running
a personal ad page is one of contemplation -- can I manage it, keep it up,
make it work?!?!?! I'll give it some thought. Meanwhile, your letter will
be on the home page for a week, so who knows (although you didn't include
the area you live in!).
Ok,
by any chance are you 45-55, over 5'10", employed, like dogs and
camping, and live anywhere near Carson City, NV? Hey, it's MY site, and I'm
looking, so I thought I'd ask!
So,
what other suggestions do I have? Hmmmm . . . let's start with . . . have
you tried hooking up with local riding groups? While these people may
already be with others, you never know who they know!
Next,
while I find big rallies and the like useless in meeting anyone, I DO have
better success in meeting people in general at charity rides. I'm not stuck
on trying to figure out who is eligible . . . just go around and admire
bikes and strike up "hello" conversations. For you, that might
mean seeing a woman on her own bike and asking her about her bike, etc.
Now,
for something different . . . are you by any chance really good at showing
others how to do basic work on their bikes?!?!?! How about contacting the
local chapters of women's riding organizations (see my Cool
Links page) and offering a half day class?! Use your imagination!
This
next one is a bit extreme, but hop onto my Let's
Ride page and see if there is anyone in your area! While this page is
meant for women seeking other women to ride with, a sincere email
introducing yourself with an "aw' shucks" thing might get you
introduced!
Last,
but not least, there ARE specialty dating sites for riders on the Internet.
You may have seen the Riders2Love
ad on my Photo Gallery page. Hey, I'm just typing out loud here! Check again
on my Cool Links page for other
dating services.
Good
luck and let us know where you're at -- 'cause you never know! I do get over
40,000 hits/month, so I've got some kind of odds working here!
Mama
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Tuesday, June
15
Dear
VTwin Mama,
My husband & I just got back from Americade (our 2nd) and really enjoyed
it. It does finish its run tomorrow (Sat) but we came back early to
attend the Indian dealer Auction here in Springfield tomorrow. The
local dealer who owned 3 stores put everything up for auction, and as Indian
owners we of course want to go be "nosy" and maybe pick up a deal
or two.
My
husband and I both ride Indians, mine is a 2002 Black & cream Spirit
Deluxe, and his is a 2002 Black & cream Chief Roadmaster. We draw
a lot of attention whenever we ride together and even when we ride alone.
The Spirit was originally his, when we started riding two years ago I was on
a Honda Shadow 600, if you recall. I got on his bike after taking the
Rider's course here in MA and that boosted my confidence 100%!! Of
course then I wouldn't give him back the Spirit so we bought him a
Chief to match....
Did
you ever think about coming to Americade? I'm sure you know it's in
Lake George NY; this year they expected over 60,000 bikes to attend.
Next year's show is June 6 -11 and it would be great to see you if you could
make it. Lots of lady bikers this year compared to last year, I'd say
200% more than last year. We're a growing breed!
Claire
Dear
Claire,
Yahoo for you and a successful run -- what fun! Of course I would
love to attend each and every rally and it's in my dreams to sell my
house, buy a motor home (need it for my two doggies) and tour around the
U.S., going to each and every gathering (bikes towed behind).
Unfortunately, until I win the Lottery, this must remain a dream!
And
yes, there are more and more women out on the road and visible, and this
is a great trend! Kudos to you and hubby on the Indians | 
Hooking Up 2002
