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Thursday, July 29

From Valerie whose long lashes were a problem with goggles:

Thank you Jennifer for your suggestion. I will look around for that helmet when I get to a state that requires helmets. I did come up with a fix. I figured that the goggles were not very expensive and if I messed them up I could get some new ones so I bought some fun foam from my local craft store then very carefully took off the foam that came on the goggles and made a pattern. then glued the new foam to the goggles. I had to double the thickness and cut a few vent  grooves in the foam so that it would breath some and it worked it gave me just a couple of millimeters of room so my lashes do not rub on the lenses anymore.  No more Mascara smears YEA! – Valerie (note from Mama: this is so VTwin Mama sister smart!)

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Thursday, July 29

Dear VTwin Mama,
A friend and I have been looking at starter bikes (I just got a beautiful 1990 Vulcan EN500) and bumped into two familiar faces at a bike shop! We didn't even know they rode, so it was a pleasant surprise and an opportunity to ask questions. The shop had a beautiful black 1998 Suzuki Savage 650 that we had our eye on, but both women crinkled up their nose at it and just sort of shook their heads and one said "Uh uhn. You don't reeeallllly want that. They sound like a toaster drivin' by." 

Upon leaving, we stopped by where they were parked to see their rides: A Vulcan (at least a 750 or larger...can't quite remember) and a Shadow, 600cc. Do you know what they were implying? Were they commenting on a specific sound they feel the Suzuki makes? Do Suzuki's sound noticeably different from any other bike? Or were they talkin' power? Are they just bike snobs? Ha ha....Love your site, Mama. – Itchin' to get out there, but waitin' on my friend who needs a ride too!

Dear Itchin',
Hmmmm . . . the only thing I can think of (given that toasters “pop,”) is that the exhaust has a popping sound versus the more beloved throaty growl (perhaps this bike is higher in pitch than most) or sophisticated purr of other bikes.

My guess is someone more in the know then these two women made the remark and they are just passing it on. How blasé! Pipes can be changed. Baffles can be altered. This is not reason enough to nix buying a bike. If you’ve got your eye on it, have the shop fire it up so you can hear it and then discuss options if necessary. More important is the maintenance record, warranty offered on this used bike, etc. Yes, some riders are complete snobs about bike makes/models. Ignore them. They are boring. Seek out riders who value their bike, are excited by what they chose, but are open to hearing your thoughts as well! – Mama

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Thursday, July 29

Dear VTwin Mama,
Thanks for your time in running this site- I love it! I basically just wanted to say I'm glad everything is OK now concerning your house and the fire. I cannot imagine how rough of an experience it was. We always say "ride your own ride" that is applicable to non-bike situations too! Take your time in getting back into the swing of things so you don't add more stress to yourself- we'll be here!

While I'm writing I might as well add a tip I've discovered on making traveling/camping trips on your bike a little easier. To help pack lighter, I take along those Dove facial cloths. If you've never seen them you take one out of the pack and wet it- it lathers up, use it to wash those bug parts off ya and throw away! No wash rags to keep track of...wash/dry...or have rolling around wet in your luggage 'til you get home! All the best... – Oh those saddle bags can seem so small from VA

Dear Oh from VA,
Thanks for this wonderful tip – each one is helpful as an overall plan of attack when traveling by motorcycle. Readers, I’ve got a whole Travel Tip page if it is of interest. Lots of great ideas! – Mama

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Wednesday, July 28

Dear VTwin Mama,
First I must say this site is amazing, and helpful. Well, this weekend I took and passed my motorcycle safety course. As nervous as I was during the test, I'm pretty surprised I didn't do a back flip when the verdict came back a pass. 

Now I am faced with the huge choice of bikes. I was very interested in a Ninja 250 (thanks for the web page you sent), but after taking the class I am thinking more about a Rebel. Since it's impossible to get a test ride out of a dealer, I was wondering if you had any feedback on the handle/feel differences between a sport bike vs. a more classic street bike? I know from the web sites of each dealer that there is about a 4 inch difference in the seat height (since I'm 4'11 that matters), and a small difference in power. It seems possible that I am opening a big can of worms with this question, but since I could go for either bike I was looking for more of a breakdown of the +/-'s from someone with far more experience. Thank you again, – Andrea

Dear Andrea,
Congrats on passing your safety course – that’s a really good first step! You’ll find useful 250cc bike comparison articles (links) at the top of my Type of Bike page, but that doesn’t include the Kawi Ninja. For that, read this article which I’m sure will help! – Mama

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Wednesday, July 28

Dear VTwin Mama,
Thanks Mama, I just checked out the Speedy Bike Girls site… Your right it’s great. I took my class… and passed… In fact there were four girls and we all passed… (Two men failed) :o) although I wish them well it gave me a little jolt of confidence!

I bought a Ninja 250. It’s GREAT! If I had gotten anything bigger I would have dropped it by now. I have come close, but thanks to the low weight (around 300lbs) and my ability to touch the ground…I was able to catch myself and keep the Bike up. I know I will out grow it over the next year… but I am so happy I started with a smaller bike and I am able to learn the fundamentals and not be intimidated by the size of my bike (on top of all the other intimidating stuff i.e. traffic). I hear people saying I want something I can grow into. Well the money I spent on a Bike I could grow out of is well worth it.  I am not scared of my Bike or the power, so it is easier for me to focus on the …clutch, shift, accelerate…part of the deal…:o)..ugggg

Thanks again, and I hope all is well in your area soon! – Rookie Rider

Dear Rookie Rider,
Wowee, zowee – you’re doing great! What joy! If you saw the letter just above this one, you’ll see that Andrea is looking for first hand input on this bike, so please let me know if I can share your email address with her.

  Meanwhile, the fire has cleared our area and we’re no longer breathing smoke, so it’s all good. But what a scary time – thanks for asking! – Mama

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Wednesday, July 28

For Longing for Length on lowering a Kawi 250:

You can also change the tire size in the rear to a 60 from an 80 and lower the bike about an inch and you can take the seat to an upholsterer and have 1.5 inches taken out of the seat i did this for my wife's 250 Ninja. – Danny (note from Mama: thanks for the reminder that a tire change can make a difference as well -- this is a point I keep forgetting, but now have on my Motorcycles for Short Riders page.)

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Wednesday, July 28

Dear VTwin Mama,
FYI, http://www.esc.org/sidecar.html. It is Evergreen Safety Council's Sidecar/Trike Program. The program is all over the place and in some areas one has to have an additional endorsement, so depending on the area have them check it out. Washington State is the main area, I took my course in Chicago for sidecar. Hope this will help just in-case the question comes up. Have a great one. Ride Safe, – Jacque

Dear Jacque,
Wonderful – thanks for sharing. I’ll add this link to my Trikes page for future reference. – Mama

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Wednesday, July 28

For Sue whose husband died but she wants to ride the Goldwing and maybe convert it to an automatic:

My heart goes out to her. She would like to see about converting their Gold Wing trike into an automatic: she may want to check out www.adaptivemotorcycling.com. The company has a product that I believe is called "Kliktronic" and is a thumb-switch electronic shifter. She still may need to use the clutch--the site isn't that clear--but it would eliminate the need for left foot shifting. Was designed with amputees in mind. It's not that cheap ($700+) but might offer her the opportunity to continue riding. I wish her and you all the best. Warmest regards, – Bryna (note from Mama: I hopped onto the site and it seems that this device removes the shifting task from the foot to the hand, so useful in some circumstances, but not automatic. Still, this is a useful reference. As a side note, although the site is only three pages, and two are focused on this device, the Contact page clearly welcomes special needs riders to contact Tim to ponder and noodle out possible modifications to a bike to accommodate the rider. Yahoo!)

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Wednesday, July 28

Dear VTwin Mama,
I just bought a 2002 Honda Rebel and need to raise the brake pedal up a little higher, I had dual staggered pipes installed and when I press on my brake pedal it hits the pipes and I have a harder time to stop the rear wheel. I was told I need to raise the brake pedal. How do I do that? – Vivian Fuller

Dear Vivian,
On most bikes, if you look at where the pedal attaches to the next point, you’ll see some sort of allen head screw or bolt to loosen up. Then you wiggle the pedal off and position it slightly tilted more upwards, wiggle it back on, and re-secure. Otherwise, ride your bike over to the local dealer and have the service department do the adjustment for you – trust me, it’s less than a 5 minute thing (and needs to be handled, especially given that this is a potentially dangerous situation). – Mama

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Wednesday, July 28

From Gina to Garry, both who were looking to lower a Honda 599:

I have spoken to Chad at Bikes2nv.com and he says he can lower this bike.  I have been told that this rear suspension has no linkage, but Chad assures me it does and can be lowered using this linkage or he can fabricate linkage.  He is going to the Mid-Ohio races  this weekend and promises to find out more information there by talking to race teams, owners and manufacturers. Bikes2nv phone number is 614-837-4009. I haven't purchased the 599 yet because without lowering the bike I won 't be able to ride it at 5'2". Good luck. – Gina (note from Mama: riders helping other riders -- thanks for the research!)

Added note from 7/29: I have since learned from Bikes2nv.com that lowering a 599 is not possible. The shock preset can be changed, but there is no linkage as such and a shorter shock wouldn't make enough difference in my case to lower it enough. Maybe next year. In the mean time I am investigating the Suzuki Standard bikes. Thank you for your assistance.

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Tuesday, July 27

Dear VTwin Mama,
I'm a beginning biker and just dropped my 550-pound bike about a half hour ago, in my back yard trying to maneuver it into the toy hauler. My son was off at school and try as I might (I'm 5'10" and a pretty strong girl) I just could not raise it. I about gave myself a hernia trying. Desperate, I went to the web, Googled "pick up dropped motorcycle" and found your link. Read it, tried it, and it worked! Thank you! Thank you! – Robbie

Dear Robbie,
Glad my site could be of help -- and kudos to you for learning a new technique that will serve you well in the future (and is a great confidence booster!). Readers, if you are wondering how to do it, check my Picking Up the Bike page! – Mama

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Tuesday, July 27

Dear VTwin Mama,
I know this site is designed for women motorcyclists but it speaks the truth for males as well.  I’m 35 years old and had no motorcycle experience at all with the exception of driving an 80cc dirt bike when I was 17 years old that wound up with me crashing twice and putting me off motorcycles forever, or so I thought.

I have a friend and his girl friend that ride motorcycles such as the Yamaha R1 1000 (crotch rocket of course).  I’ve always found these exciting but my fear kept me away from them, even though my friend said he’d teach me.  I thought I’d take the safe route and took the Alberta Safety Council’s motorcycle course where you drive 125 and 250 cc motorcycles of which I successfully completed it with flying colors on June 13, 2004.  This was a 3 day course where you are on the bikes almost 8 hours a day.  Then it was time to purchase a bike.  I wanted a sport bike but did not like the weight on the wrists as well did not like how the feet were angled for changing gears so “yesterday” I finally settled on the 2004 GSX-750F Katana (sport touring - $8600 CAD).  It weighs around 468 lbs but I’m in very good shape and weigh a muscular 200 lbs (weight lift and do Taekwondo).  Like others I was a little pressured to get a bigger bike as originally I was going to get the GSX-600F Katana but was told I’d grow out of it too fast.

None the less I picked it up yesterday, Thursday, July 22, 2004.  It was wheeled out into the parking lot and I barely got the feel for this (twice around the block) when we head instead of the highway home (25 minutes) to downtown traffic during rush hour.  A little scared but I tried to remember the course and since the course really only deals with slow speeds I did not too bad and only stalled twice at one intersection.  Having my friend with me definitely helped as a buffer for traffic.  So we head on the highway home and pull into my drive way.  My wife was very excited as she likes the looks of these bikes and made sure I got the matching jacket, helmet and gloves.  She takes my picture on and off the bike and by this time I’m feeling good.  I successfully drove it at slow speeds and highways speeds and I was feeling confident.

Now my driveway is on an angle upwards, like many are, and I back the bike out slowly.  Gravity is doing its job but I have the front brake working and things are going good “until” I get to the curb.  I brush up against curb with the clutch box and this makes me loose my balance and I drop my bike.  No matter how strong I was I could not stop this.  When she goes she goes and sure enough some damage occurs.  The curb scratches the backside of the fender under the seat, the clutch box has a scratch, there’s a crack in the side marker light and a couple of chips on the faring.  PLUS I feel like a complete idiot as my neighbors probably seen this and the traffic around me.  And now my confidence has gone down.  45 Kilometers only (28 miles) and I drop my bike.

Thankfully my friend who got me to ride is also a body guy and he says it’s all cosmetic and easily fixed.  He plans to scan my bike’s color at work next week and have it as good as new.  None the less I’m going over this in my head and it eats at me.  I know I can’t do anything about it but learn from it.  Now I also have the jitters of dropping it again or maybe not paying attention and getting into more serious trouble.  I can only take it one step at a time and think back on what I learned and what I’m going to learn.  I wish the best to “anybody” who is driving a motorcycle for the first time and want you to know the words that I read from the women who wrote in speak true for me as well.  Thanks. – Dereck in Fort Saskatchewan, Alberta, Canada

Dear Dereck,
Welcome to the VTwin Mama site. Although it was created for women, I want you to look up at the main logo area where my "byline" is . . .For sassy, classy women motorcyclists . . . and note that as of today I have added the words "men welcome!"

Your words are powerful because they help us understand that ANY new rider faces many of the same challenges. And we feel the same ickies when things don't go exactly right! Chin up, motor on. And trust me that you'll find this to be an amusing story somewhere down the line in your riding experience.

Take another look at the bottom of the drive. Perhaps a small section could be filled in a bit with concrete to eliminate the "dent" or something else can be planned logistically that will help. If that's not feasible, back the bike down (engine off so it doesn't scare you if you hit the throttle in neutral) to the "ick" area and have your wife stabilize you out by keeping your front end straight (she could straddle the front wheel with hands on handlebars). An extra pair of hands is always useful when learning to navigate something new. Can't think of any other ideas, but know that if you pre-plan this for your next go at it, you'll be tons more successful! – Mama

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Tuesday, July 27

Dear VTwin Mama,
I have never driven a motorcycle before but am interested in pursuing it. I am only 5'0 and am concerned about finding a bike that would be suitable for me. Any suggestions? – Laurie B.

Dear Laurie,
Here is my five step plan:
1)   Take a riding course (you’ll get your feet wet on a 250cc bike or similar)
2)   Visit my Motorcycles for Short Riders page (heads up ideas on bikes)
3)   Start visiting dealerships and looking/sitting/talking (shopping is fun!)
4)   Join local chapter of woman’s riding organization (moral support)
5)   Repeat until you are ready to buy – Mama

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Tuesday, July 27

Dear VTwin Mama,
Hi everyone. I am 50 years old and 5'1. I am just now getting back to riding after 10 years with no bike. Last bike I rode was a Suzuki Savage 650.

I lived in NY so I didn't get a lot of riding time in when I had my bike but I got really good with it I now live in Florida and in the process of buying a 1998 Virago 1100. Someone in this group somewhere said they thought that the virago was top heavy. Anyone else out there ride a Virago 1100? A number of years ago I sat on one and feel in love. It seemed to be balanced very well. I was able to rock it between my legs with my hands very loosely on the handle bars. When I sat on the 1998 it did feel like it might be a bit top heavy. I have not rode it yet, actually I am so out of practice that I surprised myself. I have already told my husband that I intend to take classes because this bike is so much bigger than any other that I have rode. Can anyone give me some insight on the Virago 1100? – Bonnie

Dear Bonnie,
Kudos on returning to an old love! Ok Virago 1100 riders, it’s time to chime in (again?!). I’ve really got to get these responses organized by make/model. – Mama

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Tuesday, July 27

For Buffalo, NY who is seeking an auto tranny bike, but in crotch rocket style:

Honda makes a sporty with an automatic transmission. I don't remember the model but I saw it a few weeks ago. I too am looking for an automatic, but I would like to see the Ridley. I'm not much on the sporty look. – Charlotte in New Orleans (note from Mama: Well, Honda makes scooters that could be argued that they look sporty (or snappy at least), but the crotch rocket style (looks like you’re riding a horse and handing onto the mane for dear life) just isn’t there. Unless I'm missing something, which happens sometimes! Of course, the person riding the bike could have been shifting so smoothly that you didn’t realize it was a manual transmission! Look at the Ridleys by visiting their site: http://www.ridleymotorcycle.com and contact them for dealers or references.)

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Tuesday, July 27

Dear VTwin Mama,
Congrats on your site !!!

I live in the wonderful island of Puerto Rico, and until now I had no reason to regret the fact that it is an ISLAND (no easy access to what sounds like the unending adventures on your highways, long roads, and specially other serious women interested in riding) ...

As many 40 something girls, I am trying to get into riding, bought a 1988 Honda 650 to learn, fell and injured my left elbow (now recovered), and am debating if I should maybe go down to a scooter (150 or bigger) to get the basic riding skills or insist on the 650 (I haven't considered a smaller bike given that it would be very hard to sell later).

I guess its normal to be scared after the fall, specially given that it was only my second time on the bike, (and it was due also for trying to learn around the hills and small roads of my area). I would very much appreciate your opinion. – Margo in PR

Dear Margo,
Ah, you are much in the same position as we mainlanders were many years ago, and in some ways, still are – alone (or in small numbers) in our pursuit of something we love! I’ve been to Puerto Rico a number of times and feel that you’ll have plenty of fun times because everything is just so beautiful!

And windy and curvy, which isn’t very helpful to someone trying to learn! Yes, it’s normal to be scared after your first fall, but not to worry . . . let’s noodle out an idea to help!

Given that it would be difficult to sell the bike, my suggestion is this: there must be some area nearby that has a relatively straight, open area. Do you work? Does the company have a parking lot? Would they let you keep the bike there overnight so you could hop on it and practice until such time that you’re ready to bring it home? If so, then have someone get that bike over there and then begin practice. You need a clear area with no obstacles so that practice is productive.

Hmmm . . . otherwise, have you checked for motorcycle clubs/organizations in PR? Search the Internet to see who is nearby and if it would meet your needs. Many times you can find kind, wonderful people who will help and guide you during this initial phase into your riding journey. And I just hopped onto the Ride My Own site and there is one woman listed in PR who is starting to learn like you. Maybe she is nearby?! Good luck! – Mama

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Tuesday, July 27

Dear VTwin Mama,
I am a soon-to-be new rider (planning on taking the MSF course this weekend), or rather, re-taking it. I've taken it last year, and after we've gotten to the point of riding between the cones, I sort of laid the bike down (gently - no damage to me or bike ;) panicked, and decided to quit.

I do not drive a stick shift, so naturally, I had difficulty with shifting, which I believe I can overcome.

My biggest problem, however, is that I had difficulty balancing the bike (even the light 250s). I HATE bicycles - I've ridden one as a kid, but never liked it and didn't feel comfortable on it.

This is the main source of my frustration, since I'm very fit and athletic (tennis, swimming, taekwondo, soccer, you name it, for many years). I have a great sense of balance which I use daily, in training - so why the balancing part is so difficult to me??? I am also pretty strong, and not too short (5'7"). I'm 29 and it good shape, I learn quickly, so why can't I get into this? I do love speed/rush and motorcycles.

We had a woman in our class in her 60s (props to her, btw!) who did fine, and I just chicken out. Felt very tense, the entire time of my incomplete class attendance.

My question: anyone else had to go thorough similar? Anyone out there having difficulty balancing a bike at low speeds?

Is there any hope for me at all, or should I just settle for riding in the back; please let me know, as I see there are many experienced woman riders in this forum. Is there anyone who gave up or almost gave up in the beginning? Are there people that are just not meant to ride? ANY feedback is appreciated, – Perplexed

Dear Perplexed,
Wow. I want to be you! Well, except for the riding thingy!

Kudos to you for all your achievements to date. Your letter suggests a level of frustration of not being able to conquer something right off the bat, but if you look a little closer, you’ll see that your mastery in many sports has to do with your body (and maybe a small sports equipment piece of some sort, i.e. a racket or ball).

A motorcycle is a whole different animal and demands respect – it is a mechanical/electrical beast with a lot of raw power with absolutely no ability to read your mind or desired actions/reactions. It does what you tell it to do, and if you do it incorrectly, it can hurt you. In addition, cages (aka cars) have absolutely no respect for you or the bike which makes it highly dangerous if you are not in the mood to pay strict attention to what you are doing or more importantly, what others are doing.

Because shifting and balance are both challenges for you, you might want to consider learning to drive a stick shift car first so that the timing and sequencing is learned before you add the balance component that a motorcycle will also require. Or, opt for an auto tranny bike so you take the shifting out of the equation. Just a thought.

Yes, some people are not meant to ride, and others battle for longer amounts of time to achieve the harmony with a bike that meets their expectations. Examine your heart and trust your gut instinct on what you hope to achieve and then go for it. We are rooting for you! – Mama

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Tuesday, July 27

For Sue whose husband died but she wants to ride the Goldwing Trike by herself:

Really sorry about your husband. Have you checked out the Goldwing Club in your area? Go to www.gwrra.org. You will find lots of helpful people there. You can ride that Wing! – Liz in Phoenix (note from Mama: thanks for the helpful site tip -- support from experienced Goldwing riders would be very useful.)

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Thursday, July 22

Dear VTwin Mama,
I am not even a rider yet, ( I take the class July 9th). I am so freaked out. I can relate to Annie B. Thanks Mama for a great site and helping me see that I am not alone. My boyfriend rides an FZ1 and we have been trying to figure out what bike would work for me... (5'3) and new to the sport. Your list of bikes for short riders was EXACTLY what I needed. I will turn to your web site again and again to help gain my confidence and get advise as I travel down this new adventure called motorcycling.... – Rookie Rider

Dear Rookie Rider,
So sorry for not posting your message before you took the class. Gosh, how did it go? Glad my site is already providing gobs of info. As your boyfriend is riding a sportier bike, perhaps you’ll be looking in that direction also, so check out this other girl-power source with tons of info  -- it’s Speedy Bike Girls! – Mama

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Thursday, July 22

Dear VTwin Mama,
Last October my husband purchased a Goldwing Trike.  Her name is HIGH LIFE, and I felt that we were living the high life, everything was perfect.  Then, this April he passed away suddenly. I was devastated. We had been married for 6 years and he was my soul mate (yes I really believe in that). My first instinct was to sell the bike because I never wanted to see it again, but then I realized I loved that bike as much a he did.  One problem, I don't know how to ride the darn thing. I studied the manual one week and got my nerve up to start it and take it out of the garage to the front lawn, at a very fast bumpy escape.  Is there anyway to convert a Goldwing 1500 to an automatic transmission and where would I go. I want to ride but I am 51 and it's hard to teach an old dog new tricks. Any help would be appreciated.  Thanks, – Sue

Dear Sue,
My condolences on your husband’s passing and the loss of your soul mate (yes, I believe in that too!). It’s very sad for you, but I understand that decisions have to be made about stuff.

The Goldwing Trike sounds juicy! Old dogs (harrumph) can learn new tricks best by finding a private instructor. Check with local dealers or locate the nearest riding/safety course and ask if anyone offers personal instruction. Or, visit my Cool Links page to locate women’s riding organizations. Contact a local chapter for support, guidance and sistership. Sounds like it might be just the ticket at this point in life. You’ll be able to share your new riding experience with others who also share and care. – Mama

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Thursday, July 22

Dear VTwin Mama,
Hi, I have been looking at sports bikes. I am short just reaching 5 ft. So far the Suzuki 2004 SV650S, or the 2004 GS500F are at the top of the list. My experience riding was all in high school so I will be taking a safety class before this purchase. – Andrea

Dear Andrea,
How very wise of you! We often THINK we know what we want, but after getting our feel a little wet by taking a course, we are in much better position to judge what we are looking at! And these days, test rides are few and far between. Good luck on your continuing journey and definitely check out the Speedy Bike Girls site – I think you’re really going to love them! – Mama

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Thursday, July 22

Dear VTwin Mama,
My DH and I both ride Harley's and after riding all day, we were talking about the ride. We both noticed the sport bike riders in our area ride with shorts, flip flops and tank top but with a full face helmet. Our question is why bother with the helmet if that is the only protective gear you wear? I ride without a helmet, so I am not casting stones, but we were just curious. We don't know anyone who rides one of these, so I thought I would ask here.

The bikes look cool, but in our area the sport riders are either dressed like they are going on the space shuttle or nearly naked. Just curious. – Megthered

Dear Megthered,
I don’t know either, but venture to guess that if a helmet has to be worn and I’m a “sporty” riding fast, the less grit in my face because of high speed riding is desirable. The ancillary benefit of head protection is well . . . whatever. Of course we all understand that the first one of them to hit the pavement or witness someone hit the pavement will most likely cure them of this lax and gross underestimation of the skinning power of asphalt. The ones who dress head to toe (as they do in Germany, for example, where the Autobahn really lets them fly) are cognizant that speed can hurt.

I keep in mind that all the beginning years that I rode I lived in states without helmet laws and choose to ride without. This was a choice – and at the time, it was personal, lawful, and none of anybody’s business. Of course I did not understand that it was less likely that I would cause my own problem – rather, some idiot would do me in. And that’s why protective gear is always a good idea.

And then there are days where a T-shirt will do (yes, pants and boots also!) and I make the conscious decision to take the risk. Sigh. There’s a fine line and we must each decide what’s right for us at the time. – Mama

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Thursday, July 22

Dear VTwin Mama,
I am a new rider *only 1 year riding* and just purchased a 2001 Honda Shadow VLX Deluxe , it didn't come with saddle bags , and I have seen the hard shell saddle bags before , are there any out there that fit this bike ?? I am also torn, this bike came with a small windshield , as I ride with a full face helmet I'm wondering will the windshield do anything for me ? – Tara in Flowery Branch, GA

Dear Tara,
I’m sure a quick call to the dealer will reveal what is possible, but also check at the aftermarket houses like Dennis Kirk for saddlebags. They have some metric bike stuff.

A windshield helps to cut down on the force of the air hitting your chest, which on longer rides can be a real consideration. Trust me. If need be, note the area of your body where the air is not impacting your body and ask yourself if you would really like the full force of it all. Or if you would like to reduce it even more. Then explore your options. – Mama

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Thursday, July 22

Dear VTwin Mama,
My wife has a 650 VStar and is wanting a trike. What kind of kit did you use -- I can't seem to find any information on kits for 650 VStar? Thanks for any help. – MD in Oklahoma

Dear MD,
Voyager makes a trike kit for the VStar 650: http://www.mtcvoyager.com/motorcycle_list.htm. – Mama

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Thursday, July 22

Dear VTwin Mama,
I just wanted to tell all the other VTwin Mamas out there, that I just returned from a wonderful trip to TX. I went out there for the Republic of Texas Rally. I have a Suzuki Savage, and I put about 4000 miles on the bike total. My boyfriend followed me by car on the way down, and I returned solo. For those that think they can't get out there and follow their dreams, they are mistaken. My bike has no gas gauge and only a 2 gallon tank. I did it, had no problems with the bike and met wonderful people along the way. Riding has really opened my eyes as to how great our country really is. The US has so much to offer. Get out there and enjoy this summer ladies!! – Terri in Baltimore

Dear Terri,
Exactly! – Mama

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Thursday, July 22

Dear VTwin Mama,
I really would like to buy an automatic motorcycle, but I do not like the look of the Ridley motorcycles. I really want a crotch-rocket sport bike. Do you know if there are any made and if so, where I can find them? – Buffalo, NY

Dear Buffalo, NY,
I’ve never heard of an auto tranny bike with a more sporty crotch rocket styling (perhaps because this would go against the sporty fast as you can go culture of the bike, because if you can’t jam on gears, how sporty can you be?!). Current and out of production bikes you’ll find on the market can be found on my Auto Tranny page. Skim through for some ideas (but the pickings are slim). – Mama

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Wednesday, July 21

Dear VTwin Mama,
Is there an after market center stand available for the Suzuki Volusia? – Volusiaman

Dear Volusiaman,
I can’t seem to find any info online. Have you tried contacting the Volusia Owner’s League? http://www.volusiaowners.com/.  They may be able to direct you. – Mama

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Wednesday, July 21

Dear VTwin Mama,
I discovered your website this week and it's a wealth of great information. Thank you for doing this for us. I studied the links to see how to lift a napping bike, so I feel better prepared if I ever have to do this.  So far just one tip over on my first attempt out of my driveway last year, but I've made steady progress and try to ride as much as I can now, commuting to work most weekdays too. At 49, its my new passion, and I think of my Sportster as a lovely friend.

I do live in the hills and commute through a pass, and I am just starting to feel that I can manage stopping on hills. I've used several of the methods discussed, recently starting to use the rear brake as the light is changing, freeing my right hand for the throttle. I also find holding the clutch just short of the friction zone works well.  As I gain confidence about rolling back a little, I am tending to use your method of giving it a little more throttle to compensate for this: key seems to be to act quickly and smoothly.

I did have a situation in my early months, riding up a narrow incline toward the pass, when a guy in a SUV turned onto this side road right down the middle , looked right at me and proceeded to run me almost off the road. I swerved right to the edge, stayed upright, but killed the engine, leaving me holding up the bike on a steep hill.  Also had to deal with heavy wind gusts that day, so I had to keep both feet on the ground. Ended up killing the engine two more times before I got up the hill. Bless the driver of the car behind me for her patience!  Anyway, my thought is that if I ever had a rough uphill situation again, I might just pull out the choke to lower the chance of killing the engine, till I'm rolling again. Any thoughts about that idea?   Thanks, – Suzanne

Dear Suzanne,
Congrats on your new friend and glad the VTwin Mama site is already providing bits of information that will come in handy down the line.

Kudos to you for keeping presence of mind in a difficult situation with the jerk! Hmmmm . . . my thought is that if you pull out the choke, you stand a good chance of flooding the spark plugs, especially if you try to restart the bike and forget to push the chock back in. And once they are fouled, you’ll need to yank them or let the bike sit till they dry out naturally. The only other option I can suggest (if drivers around you allow it), is to let the bike slowly slide backwards in a big U so you are facing back downhill. Not sure if this is viable, but something to consider.

Meanwhile, is there someplace around, or a quiet time of the day/week, that you could practice your steep hill maneuvers? This sounds like the best of all thoughts as mastering the skill sounds like something that would be to your great advantage given your location. Onward and upward takes on new meaning! – Mama

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Wednesday, July 21

Dear VTwin Mama,
I wrote you last week about getting my second bike. My first was a Rebel. Just not satisfied with the size and comfort. Looked at everything and the Honda Shadow had  my name on it. I got a 1993 model for the same price I paid for my Rebel so I'm very  happy. Got it this afternoon and rode until 10:00 p.m. I'm on a high!

My new baby is a 600 VLX and came equipped with saddle bags, extended mirrors, sissy bar, and the best sounding pipes I've ever heard. I'm so excited I'm not sure I will sleep tonight.

I love your website and am learning a great deal from it. Thanks a bunch! – Carolyn

Dear Carolyn,
You are welcome. And I am soooo excited for you as well! Kudos on your “next step” bike – she sounds like a beauty – and you’re sure to have tons of fun. Now, go get some sleep ‘cause riding on too little brain fuel doesn’t do the body good. And email a picture of you and the bike sometime – we’d love to “see” you!

Here’s my new electronic biker wave (left hand of course) to salute your continuing journey (ok, ok, it’s not a Rembrandt, but you get the “picture,” don’t you?!?!?!?!!

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Wednesday, July 21

Dear VTwin Mama,
About 20 years ago, my husband and I both enjoyed riding the kids on weekends on our motorcycles (mine was a 250 rebel). We sold them when an uncle of mine perished in a tragic motorcycle accident.

Two years ago I got the fever again and Bought another 250 (Suzuki). It wasn't long before my husband had to have one too and came home from work one day with a Virago 1100. He pressured me for a long time to move up to a bigger bike, but I (at 4 feet 11 inches) had become comfortable with the 250. My husband is a private pilot and one of his pilot buddies came over one day with an offer I couldn't refuse, so he went home with my beautiful GZ 250. The very same day, we drove about 60 miles and came home with a used VLX 600 Shadow. I was sick. It was dirty, sported some cheap saddle bags, no windshield and was too tall for me to sit on flat footed. He took the bike to the basement where I didn't see it for about 3 weeks. Then, one day he rolled it out and asked me to sit on it. He had installed a lowering kit, front and rear, new bolt on saddle bags and a windshield. He had cleaned it up and it looked GOOD.

Still not quite flat footed, I was able to raise it off the kickstand, so I took it around the block for a test drive. Hmmm, this is nice, I thought, so I asked him to roll out the Virago. For once I kept up through the gears. Within a couple of weeks, I had a nice new Travelcade saddle and some pipes and I suddenly felt ten feet tall. WOW! It sounds and looks great. And I look great on it. Admittedly, I have dropped it a few times. I haven't yet mastered tight maneuvers. My husband just replaces the pipes and we go at it again.

To make a long story short, 4 of my husband's pilot buddies were inspired enough by the sight of a new V-twin Mama in town, that they have now bought bikes and join us on regular rides . Furthermore, we are currently teaching the 53 year old wife of one of the pilots to ride her new VT600. She is coming along nicely and she loves it. Thanks for the inspiration and for the informational web site. You'll never know how useful all the info has been to my husband while he tinkers with my bike. – Brenda from the heart of Georgia

Dear Brenda,
Wow! Now that’s a real thank you! Will I be knighted (or become a Dame, or is that dammed) soon? Hee, hee, hee. Glad to be of help.

Your story is just too fun! I read in dismay the loss of your beloved bike and the rat thing that took its place. What shock! What horror! What a B movie!

There’s nothing like a new Sister in town to inspire others and it sounds like you’ve got a good head on your shoulders. Kudos to you for taking a leap of faith on trying something a little bit more powerful and giving it a chance. Send a group picture sometime, won’t you?! There’s nothing like 15 minutes of online fame (or is that exposure?!) to really cap off this mini adventure of yours! – Mama

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Wednesday, July 21

Dear VTwin Mama,
Interesting, how certain writers say "It's not WHAT you ride". In the same paragraph, they knock Harley as something that has to be wrenched and worked on too much. If indeed it is not what you ride, please don't knock the riding choice of others. I ride an Electra Glide Harley, do not need to " wrench on it ", or anything out of the ordinary. No, I am neither an officer or an outlaw. I am a Special Education Teacher. A motorcycle is a motorcycle. I believe we all ride for at least one common reason. Negative comments used to separate we riders are negative energy. – Russ

Dear Russ,
It’s true that it’s easy to stereotype the Harley’s as wrench time drains based on old myths and too little first-hand knowledge. I’ve also noticed that the media persists in portraying riding men as loner rebels and the women as chicks that hang out or on. If they do represent us (men and women) more correctly, they still try to infuse a “ohmigosh, look what they’re doing” tone, like it’s still a “fringe element” thing that we have choosen to pursue. This could be part and parcel because the general public likes the rogue vision and wishes they could be part of it (but for some reason are not). It’s more fun for them to think we are “bad,” because if we’re not “bad,” then who is (other than celebrities who have their own image problems)?!

So, out with the negative energy and let’s get on with understanding for and between all riders. Those who persist in useless comparisons have only themselves to blame when no one will talk with them any more. – Mama

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Wednesday, July 21

Dear VTwin Mama,
I recently started reading your site. Was interested in comments from short women riders, since I am also "height challenged". I'm 5'3", 110 lbs. I had been away from riding motorcycles for almost 20 years and at 47 decided to do it again. Having a great time! I got a 1990 Kawasaki Vulcan 500 last winter to start riding again and put about 500 mi. in 4 months. My son encouraged me to try his bike he had been trying to sell, a 2002 Honda Shadow Spirit 750. I thought it would too big, but boy was I wrong. It was much lower than the Vulcan, and the center of gravity was lower too. I felt so much more stable on the Honda. I immediately fell in love with the Shadow and bought it from him. I am now trying to sell the Kawasaki. I have put over 3,000 miles in 2 months on the Shadow. – SKM

Dear SKM,
Wow! We are so proud of you and happy for you! Sometimes a leap of faith (it doesn’t have to be a Grand Canyon jump) opens up doors that are a bit frightful to step through, but prove to be the very ones that give us new opportunities to grow. It’s hard to chronicle the whole “lower center of gravity” thing, but once you’ve ridden one bike, you can forever more compare how you feel riding the next one, and the one after that, etc. Trying different bikes hones our understanding of our very personal combinations of balance and comfort, etc. and gives us a chance to say “what if?” Ride on! – Mama

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Tuesday, July 20

Dear VTwin Mama,
I like your web site. It is informative and covers a large area of information. Thanks. I am the other half of Jennifer (sabre-girl) from Wisconsin.

For Angela who lost a friend in a riding accident:

My condolences to you, your husband, your friends husband and the fifth rider in your group. My wife brought your story to my attention and after reading it I can honestly say that I feel for all of you. Being a survivor of a motorcycle accident myself I can relate to your mixed emotions on riding again. You have probably heard the phrase "Getting back on the horse." Well, sometimes it is not as easy as it may seem. You undoubtedly have mixed emotions of the crash. Emotions of anger, sadness, confusion (How could this have happened?) and even guilt (Why her and not me or someone else?). Talking to someone will help. What you are going through is a normal reaction for a situation such as this. Even after you get back on the bike ( I'm assuming that you will, Right?) you will be faced with emotional challenges for a while. All of these can be conquered with the help of time, confidence and communications.

I spent one year and eight months healing and rehabing from my accident with my main goal being that of returning to ride my police motorcycle. Even after being back to work for two months now I find myself questioning if I want to go for a ride or not some days. I feel my adrenalin start to flow when I get into rush hour traffic with my body tensing up, heart beating and my eyes checking out every conceivable threat on the road. This hyper defensive rush, as I call it, has started to subside the more that I ride. 

My advice would be not to lose your confidence. You are not an amateur rider. You have a few miles under your belt. Take your time and when it feels right you will get back on the horse again. When you do decide to get back on consider taking an Advanced Riders Course. I found this course a great confidence builder for my wife and myself. Do not feel guilty for taking this course or for not wanting to jump right out into heavy traffic right off the bat. For I have been riding for many years and have taken riders courses for police motor officers but I still found myself very hesitant and nervous the first few times out on my bike.

If you still feel that you might not be able to do it give me a call and I will come out and ride with you folks. For the decision to ride is yours and yours only. When the time is right you will know. – Gary in WI at cobracop@yahoo.com  (note from Mama: Jennifer, Gary's wife, first wrote to this site about her and Gary's accident on January 21, 2003 and has written moving letters chronicling the accident, progress, continuing concerns, as well as responses to other incoming letters from accident survivors. Gary, thank you for letting me know that you enjoy reading my site as well and for taking the time to offer your support to Angela. Your voice comes from first-hand experience but also, with some healing time already in place, you can see how time affects your decisions. These are valuable perspectives. Even if Angela doesn't contact you, know that this letter, posted on the Accident Survivor's page, may help someone else in the future. You are an inspiration to us all.)

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Tuesday, July 20

More for Carol who at 70 is enduring a hubby who thinks he knows best:

Two feet down, one up, what ever -- YOU are an Inspiration to me! My partner remarked to me "there is not a gear low enough to keep up with you." Well, I was on my Rebel 250 ( I loved my Rebel) and yes he ticked me off. I told him that he hurt my feelings when he said that and I will not ride if I am not feeling well, tired, or upset. He tried to say something about my speed and I cut him off and said "You ride at your speed and I ride at mine."

I did not ride any faster than I felt comfortable riding. He may want to fly around the corners and go on the main roads. So I said "If you want to ride with me, I call the shots." He looked at me funny then I said "when you go by yourself, you call the shots." I did not ride with him for a whole season. The next season he said "hey you want to go for a ride and you call the shots." Well that was three years ago, so not he remarks, "who takes lead?" You do what you do best and if he don't like it "tough beans". – Chromebroom, aka Jacque (note from Mama: a direct and honest statement of what you need/want is often necessary to get the point across. Thanks for letting Carol know that it's ok to put your foot down (literally!) and say what you really think so there is no doubt of your feelings!)

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Tuesday, July 20

Dear VTwin Mama,
My beautiful wife has wanted her own motorcycle for a few years and now it's high time she get one. It will be her first motorcycle in her adult life. She took and passed the MSF course a few years ago and will take it again when a space opens up in a class.

We looked at two bikes this past weekend, the new 2004 Honda 750 Aero and the new 2004 Harley 883 Sportster Custom. She liked them both and is having a difficult time deciding what to look at next. Any information, suggestions, and/or recommendations would be welcome. Originally we had three items that her bike should have, shaft or belt drive, EFI and tubeless wheels. Neither of the two bikes mentioned above have all these items.

I found this website thanks to Marina at www.wildguzzi.com. Marina is one of the few and the proud women Moto Guzzi riders. Thank you very much Marina. Thank You V-Twin Mama, – Mark

Dear Mark,
Thanks to my great sister Marina for pointing out my site! Unfortunately, this is rarely the time of year when the big motorcycle shows are being held, as this is a great opportunity to see all makes/models in one setting. Still, check the Motorcycle Events site just in case, or for any other type of upcoming event that would allow you to see more bikes in one place.

If you haven't looked at the Suzuki Intruder 800, this might be a bike for your consideration, as well as the Yamaha VStar series, a much loved bike by many women riders (and available in different cc ranges). I really like the State 8 site for checking on motorcycle specifications, as they have a side-by-side comparison link that let's you look at two models next to each other (Yami, Kawi and Suzuki). Good luck in the continuing hunt! – Mama

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Tuesday, July 20

Dear VTwin Mama,
I need to know if anyone has been successful lowering a Honda 599 - the model year I am interested in is 2004.  I want to switch from a cruiser to a sport standard bike for ease of handling but need to lower about 2 inches. Can you help with information? – Gina Wilson

Is there a lowering kit available for the 599 or CB600F4 -- 2004 Honda? My wife recently purchased one and would like it a little lower. – Garry

Dear Gina and Garry (unrelated to each other, but the letters came in two days apart!),
If your local dealer has been unable to assist you, I can tell you from experience that the aftermarket parts houses most likely do not have a solution yet for 2004 models. However, many bikes are lowered by adding a weird shaped bracket that repositions where the shock(s) bolt in, effectively lowering the bike, so you may try the hunt for previous model years that would still work with your bike. Or you may find shorter shocks available (Progressive Suspension is one place to look by clicking on their Application Finder link). I'm also going to recommend that you visit the Speedy Bike Girls site as they have more direct knowledge with the sporty bikes than this site. – Mama

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Monday, July 19

Hi Petra,
Just checked your website.  Relieved to hear that you're safe [VTwin Mama, aka Petra, had a harrowing week with a nasty beastie wildfire just one mile from her house, but is safe and sound and trying to get back into the swing of things!]. Just wanted you to know that I got some great tips from the site and I passed my MSF course last Saturday on my first try!  I've never been so nervous in my life, not even when I took my certification exam for medical transcription.  My instructor said a long road trip would be excellent practice for me.  Yikes! – Kathy D.

Dear Kathy,
A big thank you to everyone who wrote in to offer their support during a terrible, horrific event. But it's time to get back in the saddle and your letter, Kathy, was the perfect lead-in! Hurray for passing your course! As to the instructor's advice -- well, trust your gut on how YOU think you should continue your practice time and you'll do well. – Mama

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Monday, July 19

For Valerie whose long lashes cause problems with riding goggles and such:

My lashes aren't very long, but I always hated it when mine would brush against my sunglasses. This is a very expensive fix, but check out http://www.flipopen.com/ This is an awesome helmet from Italy and I absolutely love mine. Gone are the sunglasses and goggles! Plenty of room for lashes and no more sunglass vibration! Also perfect for anyone with corrective lenses. Check it out! It's a little pricey at $300-325. I had to drive an hour and a half to find a dealer who carries this helmet; only one dealer in Wisconsin. Wouldn't trade it for anything and would definitely buy another! – Jennifer (note from Mama: ah, a solution from first hand experience -- the best kind -- thank you!)

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Monday, July 19

For Carol who at 70 is enduring a hubby who thinks he knows best:

This is for that awesome lady, Carol W. who is still riding at 70 years young and wants to know if there’s a “correct” way of starting out.

Allow me to quote directly from what we coaches refer to around here as “The Big Book” which is the MSF RiderCoach Guide that we take our training from. On Exercise 2, the first time students actually ride across the range:

“ Power walk (a.k.a. duck walk) until speed is stable”, translated: take a couple of steps as the bike move out.

And then from our Policies and Procedures for Washington State:

“Starts with Both Feet on the Ground: When beginning riders move from a stop, they should move in a straight line. This minimizes directional-control and balance problems. If one foot is on the ground and the other on a foot peg, the motorcycle leans slightly toward the foot that is down. This causes the motorcycle’s initial movement, to be slight turn in the direction of the lean. The rider must immediately make a steering correction to maintain the desired path and to regain balance. This correction is frequently too large, and the rider has difficulty from the beginning. Starting with both feet down helps keep the motorcycle’s initial movement balanced and in a straight line.”

Now, with that said; IMHO, I would tell you that you’re not a beginning rider and after 12 years of starting out with your right foot up and it working for you without a problem of veering as you take off (which IS a safety issue), I’d tell hubby to get off your a** about it. And again and ALWAYS ‘ride your own ride’. – HammerLady (note from Mama: that's right! Well said and thanks for sharing official guidelines from the MSF. For those of you newer to the site, HammerLady hosts an open chat forum for riders at http://www.shinnysideup.com and is a frequent contributor of polished knowledge -- after all, she is an instructor!)

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Monday, July 19

Dear VTwin Mama,
I am looking at the old Honda Hondamatics for the wife. You know, the ones from the late 70's. What is the seat/saddle height on them? – D. Jones

Dear D.,
We know that the 400cc Hondamatics had a seat height of 32" (81.3 cm). Anything else about these bikes discussed so far is posted on my Auto Tranny page. – Mama

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Monday, July 19

From Sami who was battling gravel devils and got input from the VTM sisters:

I have already begun some of the techniques I've read here. I don't "hood" my front brake anymore. Coming out of the lane, I keep my feet on the pegs-with my grip looser. Coming down the lane (it's downhill) I skim my feet above the large gravel. I use my clutch primarily, not the front brake. It will take time to get comfortable with this. And no... even with a pending "wheel tax", no hope for asphalt anytime soon. : ( Thanks to everyone for their help!! – Sami (note from Mama: on behalf of all the Sisters who wrote in with advice -- you are welcome and glad to hear you're forming your own battle plan to safely navigate!)

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Monday, July 19

Dear VTwin Mama,
Was wondering if anyone out there rides a Suzuki Burgman 400? It's called a scooter but it looks and rides like a motorcycle, its 400cc -- can reach speeds of 95...needs a motorcycle license, I bought one last year, passed the test for my lic. been having fun ever since, but I am bored with no one else to ride with.

I am from NH (Seacoast) and would love to find others to ride with, my bike is highway legal, but I do prefer non-highway travel, less major highways ex. rte 95 and the like.....I am comfortable at 55-60 for now.....I am married to a supportive guy that said "go for it last." He does not ride, I'm 46 and having fun with my "scooter" look them up on the Suzuki website.

Hopefully your not all laughing at me cuz its a scooter -- I would love to get a "real " bike , could have but choose this one instead, being automatic, its easier for me for now : ) Hope to hear from others in NH ......thanks. – Diana

Dear Diana,
Trust me on this one . . . we never laugh at anyone who writes into this site and talks the riding experience. You are in good company!

I don't have the time right now to read through my Auto Tranny page, but I'm sure I've heard from people with your choice of bike, so scan through the postings and see.

Meanwhile, I found this Scooter Club index on the Internet and there's one in NH! Check it out to meet like-minded riders! – Mama

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Tuesday, July 13

For Concerned Hubby who wants to help his wife have the best beginning riding experience possible:

First of all, what a thoughtful sweetie you are!!

I did the same thing on my VTX about two weeks before I was to take the course -- I just couldn't wait!  No experience but anxious to try so my hubby and I took it to a parking lot and I was fine for a little bit but then I stalled it as I was doing a slow turn and BOOM down it went.  I got out of the way and wasn't hurt other than my pride (nor was the bike WHEW!).  I started thinking maybe I got too big of a bike and was afraid to go near it again.  I stayed off it until I went to the course.  Let me say, I learned so much (including confidence!) at the course and had so much fun that after a few days on that little 250cc bike I rode for the course, my bike didn't seem so big at all.  I'd hold off on looking for a smaller bike until after she takes the class because she is likely to feel very differently afterward. Good luck! – Cathy (note from Mama: there is nothing like the shared experience and thanks for the sage advice on waiting till after the course to reassess the situation!)

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Tuesday, July 13

Dear VTwin Mama,
So, today [this was Sunday, June 27] I rode "Annie Pearl" with a couple of men. My fiancé and a guy he met in the V-Rod forum, Chris. I was really feeling like OK, I am a weanie. I cannot ride with the two of you. I ride with my fiancé all the time and that is great. He knows me....knows my quirks and fears. Sometimes, he pushes me too much but, I back off when I need to and ride my own ride.

For example, we were coming back from the beach the other day. We had gone to visit my sis, and as we were leaving it looked like rain was going to hit us. Last year I was terrified of riding in the rain. I had never done this....What am I going to do I thought. This bike is going to skid and get away from me.

Well, I got baptized on the way home from my Brother's house last year. Torrential downpours....Oh my God! You know what...it wasn't so bad. Yeah, I had to wring out my shirt when we stopped but, I made it. Yeah, the steel bridge was scary and yes those white lines are slippery. Thank you MSF for telling me that. But, I survived.

So, my sis is terrified that it may rain...never mind that I am riding a motorcycle. I told her I would be fine. I don't choose to ride in the rain but, I could handle it. Amazing to get to that period. Anyway, we beat the rain. But, I rode my own ride. We took the highway to beat the rain. Every time I caught up to him, he would speed up. After a few times of this I said to myself, "you know what...He can ride as fast as he wants. I am riding my own ride. 55 feels comfy and that is what I am doing. I will get there. And I did.

So, today with Chris. I was worried that these 2 boys on the V-Rods were going to be too aggressive for little ole me on my Heritage Softail. Well, I kept up for the most part. I didn't let them push me. I apologized for being a Weanie. You know what Chris said to me, "how long have you been riding?" "This is my third season", I replied. He said, "You ride pretty good". And I was riding my ride. What fun!

So, Ladies....Ride Your Own Ride. Even when you are with people you have never ridden before. At the end of the day, Chris wanted to know all the things I had learned in the MSF.

Oh yeah, I met his wife when we got to his house. She is thinking about riding her own too. We had a great conversation. And what a great day! I rode my own...I wasn't intimidated...and it felt good. And I felt respected. How much more could you ask for??? Thanks for the great site and the encouragement Petra! You do wonderful things for us women riders!!!!! – Shani in NH

Dear Shani,
Oh joy of joys! You chose to trust your gut and understand your limits while also adding a few challenges to your skills, but on your own terms. This is SO NOT WEANIE! Kudos to you -- now, continue to go forth and spread joy! That's what I try to do! – Mama

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Tuesday, July 13

Dear VTwin Mama,
I got a Honda Rebel 250 when I was 58 years old to ride with my husband who has a Softtail HARLEY.  I had never had anything that large between my legs.  I was frightened at first by even the noise.  Well after taking the safety course twice and passing the road test......I am constantly thinking about what I learned in the safety course while riding.  

I am close to 70.....and my husband now is shouting at me that I start off wrong and will kill myself.  I have always started off this way because of the safety course.  He says it is something I made up......why would I make something up that has always been harder for me?  Maybe, IT IS IN MY MIND.  Can you tell me?  I learned in safety course that before taking off, you put the bike in gear while holding the clutch and front brake, put your left foot back on the ground, put your right foot on the pedal next to the rear brake, and release clutch while giving gas.  He says......this is dangerous......and I should put the bike in gear and once it is going put both feet up simultaneously.  Please provide me the correct way of start off.........I've had this right foot method hard-wired into my brain all of these years...........but I want to do it the correct way.  I HAVE never dropped the bike while riding it.  Aloha, – Carol W.

Dear Carol,
Geez sister -- tell that old coot that at your young age, you've got some brain cells that have a clue! I am not aware that there is any one right way to start off. I myself do it different every time depending on . . . who knows what! The point is, courses teach a method so that you get in the habit of getting in the habit. Then, when you've got some time under your belt, you can modify things to better suit your style.

So, should we generalize that men are know-it-alls and feel the need to "instruct" or should we just understand that he is not keeping an open mind to your stellar safety record in starting off?! I'm sure that your years of marriage have gotten you to a place where humor is the best response, so maybe constructing a little "ditty" for this one would be appropriate.

How about, "Back off ol' man, I'm a rebellious rider with a Rebel to boot." Or try, "Maybe you have to be rigid with that Softail, but by Rebel allows for greater freedom of choice." Or the more direct approach, "When I crash on a start-up, I'll ask for your advice." Hmmmm . . .

Meanwhile, kudos to you for starting to ride at 58 and keeping it going at near 70. I'd be proud to give you a biker wave any time! You represent the best in women's spirits and we are happy to call you SISTER! – Mama

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Tuesday, July 13

Dear VTwin Mama,
I have read the articles that have been written on how to pick up your bike, and have studied the illustrations.  My observation is that every one that I have seen the bike is resting on their engine guards and luggage guards at what looks to be about a 45 degree angle.  My husband's Gold Wing does anyway.  My question is can the same procedure be used and will it work if the bike is laying at a 90 degree angle or just plain flat on the ground? Which is what mine does if it gets lazy and falls down in the gravel.  I've been fortunate, so far, to have gained a bit more confidence in riding in gravel this year.  Thanks to a couple of more recent comments and suggestions that have been made on you site. I don't intend to drop my bike again but I was wondering will this method work.  I have not been brave enough to lay my bike down just to see it it would work.  My bike weights 487 pounds and my husband picked it up for me the last time.

Keep up the good work, because it sure brightens my day to read that there are so many others out there that have struggled in the same ways I have, and if I can make it at 58, they certainly will as well. It also saddens me when I read that one of our sisters have lost or sustained injuries of a family member, or friend, or even themselves in a motorcycle accident. My prayers are with them. Sincerely, – Marlene from Ohio

Dear Marlene,
Yes, our thoughts are always with our sisters who have died or been injured or witnessed a horrific motorcycle crash. But I am glad that at 58 you see the wisdom of understanding that riding can be a joyous occasion and that we all learn, no matter what our age or experience level.

The sites that show bikes not quite flat on the ground I believe are illustrated in such a way to make the procedure more photographable. Still, when the bike takes a nap (or is lazy in gravel), the same set of rules apply. Rarely is a bike completely flat, as it will have encountered the tank or foot pegs, etc.

I encourage you to begin to become one with the weight of the bike. Perhaps you've read before my thoughts on sitting on the bike (not running) and leaning it to the left and right to gauge the weight and get a real feel for it (have a partner straddle the front end to give you some measure of reassurance). See how much your leg can really hold and how far you can handle that thing.

Then, get a piece of carpet and have hubby help you learn. I can guarantee you that he wouldn't want you stranded without help when this relatively simple technique is a real skill to have under your belt. So, gather some courage and something to lay the bike on, and get cracking. No, it won't be as easy to pick up as a bike with guards, but why not take the time to figure out what you ARE GOING TO DO if you need to do it. I'm sure between your husband and yourself, you'll find the best way yet -- for you!

You will not believe the piece of mind it will bring. This is your Mama talking! – Mama

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Tuesday, July 13

More for Lucy who dropped her new bike on the first try out:

Lucy have no fear and don't be upset over what you did.  I have been riding since April, passed my MSF in mid June and was doing just fine until this past Sunday.  I was walking my bike out of it's spot in the garage on the right side.  When I came to a stop to put it down on the kickstand, guess what?  The kickstand was not down.  Guess where the bike went?  Right down on the side of my car!  The damage to the bike was a popped off windshield and a loose mirror.  Once I got a neighbor to help me move it away from the car and pick it up, it was the car that lost! ($700 to fix)  I was so angry and upset with myself for not checking that kickstand.  Bike is fine, I am going to buy crashbars for it to make it easier to pick up. But I just keep telling myself not to keep upset over it.  I thought my husband would be furious but for the first time he wasn't.  He just told me that it was going to happen and to try to be more careful and keep my bike away from his.  This coming from a man who has a temper and has never dropped his bike! 

We are all beginners, no matter how long we have been riding.  We all have new experiences everytime we go out.  And for heavens sake remember this one, NO ONE IS PERFECT!!!  We all make mistakes. – Donna (note from Mama: and there you have it! It happens! Cool advice from hubby to stay clear of other bikes until you've "got it down to an art form" though!)

Yes, I know the feeling of dropping a bike as well. I just recently up graded from a Rebel to a Shadow VLX-D, and the very first DAY I had it, I was at a stop sign, about to turn right, when the handle bars turned in and the bike went top heavy and over I went. I scuffed the muffler a little and broke the rear blinker. I was SO angry with myself. But I made myself get up, did a little bit of umm would you say temper dance, and got back on and rode around. I still get nervous at the same corner but am doing better with it now. It just takes practice and more practice!!! Good luck! – No Name (note from Mama: ah, an anonymous contribution to the oopsie stories! I like the little "dance" idea -- gets the icky out and the silly back in, as well as shaking it off so you can concentrate on the task at hand!)

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Monday, July 12

More for Angela who lost a friend in a riding accident:

I am so sorry to hear about your friend. I was very moved by you sharing your story. That in its self  takes courage to share with others what you are going thru at this point in time. Everyone grieves in his or her own way. I hope you can find someone, some way to help you deal with this. Maybe in time you can eventually get back on your bike, eventually in time maybe you can do a ride for her, in her memory. But you and time will be able to tell what is going to be best for you. Please know you and your friend are in many thoughts and prayers. – Tara (note from Mama: grief is indeed an individual journey -- thank you for letting Angela know that her timeframe in dealing with it is ok.)

I read your story of what happen to you and your friend, and my heart goes out to you and her family, but Angela you have to re-read what you wrote and will see what I see in your story. As a much older Harley rider - I see you as a Hero. Because you were looking ahead and saw what was happening, you backed off your throttle and probably don't remember but I bet you tapped your brakes, at least enough to get the attention of your fellow riders who were with you. It could have been really bad for all of you, but your quick thinking and actions saved the rest of your group. You have to get back on her and not let this eat you up, because it can destroy you, there are enough of us out here to help you get thru this, go ahead and cry and throw things, but get back to what you love - your friend would have wanted it that way. You can call me anytime. I salute you, You are a true "Lady Rider" – Jacqi (note from Mama: thank you for pointing out that in fact a greater tragedy was averted by alert riding on the part of Angela and other riders in the group. It's easy to overlook what went right when on another level something went very wrong.)

And from Angela:

Last week Thursday the three riders who were with her (my husband, myself and a friend) rode our motorcycles and escorted her body to the cemetery. This was very healing. I know that I still need to process this event and I will take your suggestions and write. I also belong to a Women's Motorcycle club and have been talking to them about it. – Angela Kosar (note from Mama: Angela has been a long time participant of the VTwin Mama site. Your courage is inspiring Angela -- know that we value that and continue to keep you in our collective prayers.)

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